I am wanting some opionions on this text habit my wife has recently developed. She text this friend of hers (man) prob. 60 times a day, mostly about nothing but bs stuff. The thing that has started to bother me is this: This wkend we spent in Dallas doing some family stuff and then going to the game. While were together driving fm place to place, she is steadily over there texting the dick. I find it very annoying and somewhat rude. She didn't bring the phone in the game with her, but as soon as it was over and we were in the car.... bam.... she was texting this dick to tell him the score. Why is she so into this sh*t with this dick? She asked if she could take a pic of me and send it to him and that started an argument bc it offended me and I told her hell no. I didn't want to send my pic to that dick. Looking 4 some feedback please.
2007-09-10 03:44:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Come on playa get real. You know she slangin p_ussy and booty popin on that guys dick!
You tell her for me...
"Stop that textin and do it fast, or they are gonna have to dig my foot out yo MF'n A-S_S!"
2007-09-10 03:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanted opinions, so hopefully no hard feelings. You need to grow a set and tell your wife you want her to stop texting the guy when it is your time or the family's time. I would never let my wife be that close of "friends" with a guy. Reason being, I use to be several married women's "friend" when I was younger. And although she might not think it's a big deal, unless he is gay, he does. And he probably sits around laughing at you, because she is spending more time communicating with him than you, and she is sitting right beside you. Sorry if this is a little harsh but more than likely it's the truth.
2007-09-10 04:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Camaro G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called an "emotional affair". It can be as or more damaging to a marriage than a one night stand or a physical affair. Your wife is cheating on you by stealing time she should spend with you.
Tell her you want to meet him and his wife/so/gf...maybe at a restaurant for dinner. If you see a giant squirm from her you'll know just exactly what it is or what she wants it to be.
There is no good reason she could possibly come up with for you not to meet this friend of hers. Try not to call him "dick" in front of her.
Here's a thought...next time you are driving and she is texting, pull over and tell her it's her turn to drive and your turn to text "dick" or one of your "friends".
2007-09-10 04:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by YaWhoDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with Free Angel. I would have pitched the phone also. This is wrong. They sound obsessed with one another. There is no room for you because of this. This would really send me over the edge if my husband were to do this. I would have the locks changed if he didn't stop it, put his bags on the porch and tell him not to come home until he was finished with this obsession. This type of thing will probably make you more attractive in her eyes. I don't intend to be mean, however...no one likes a door mat very much. I don't think you intended on becoming one and it doesn't sound like you will stay one, just in the middle of figuring it all out right now. Fix it, be a man and fight for your dignity, demand respect that you deserve...stand tall, be convincing and you will win.
2007-09-10 04:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so insecure in yourself and your relationship. Are you threatened by the man or the phone? If this guy is such a friend of hers, then allow her to be his friend, but let her know that with this texting there are times and limitations to when and how often she should be doing it. If she wanted to take a picture of you and send it to him then she isn't hiding anything from you. Hell, embrace it. You could be cussing a man who could possibly even be gay, and you have no reason to be threatened by him. Why don't you and your wife meet up with this guy and go out one night together. You may actually like the guy and he may become your friend as well. You never know.
2007-09-10 03:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, texting can be annoying in it's own right but when it is to another guy by your wife, it can make it even worse. I am married and I have a friend that happens to be a guy (granted I am from the smallest town on earth and have been best friends with him since I was in Jr. High) but we text each other occaisonally and even talk on the phone. It does bother my husband, but he is secure in our relationship, so he will keep it to himself. My suggestion to you would be that since she is taking it to an extreme level, talk to her about it, let her know that it is disrespectful of you and your relationship that she spends more time texting this guy than making you feel loved. If she cares for you at all, she should see what she is doing and want to make it right. If not, then maybe she is not committed enough to you to put your feelings first and you need to find a woman who makes you her first priority.
2007-09-10 03:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by jt1107swt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, who's the guy and how do they know each other? Personally I HATE IT when people text text text. It's not only anoying, it's rude. Personally I think you're perfectly within your rights to be ticked off. And if your wife has half a brain she'll knock it off before this becomes an even bigger issue. Good luck.
2007-09-10 03:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound from your notes that you know for sure that you know its a "DUDE"...? If in fact it IS a guy friend, put an end to that ASAP. Unless he's a flaming gay friend and you can verify it, she has no reason to be talking to some other guy that much. I know if the tables were turned and you were texting some woman like that she'd have a fit. Deal with it before it gets out of hand. And for everyone out there that says..."its ok to have a guy friend"...NO, ITS NOT. If its starting to bug you..thats enough of a reason for her to stop.
2007-09-10 04:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancel the cell plan, even if it means having to pay the ridiculous charges.
Try to have a calm discussion with her about how inappropriate it is for married women to spend so much time and energy on a man who she isn't married to. Suggest that if she doesn't agree, you can easily show her how it feels by chatting it up with some chick. Chances are, she'll get enraged just at the thought - if she doesn't, that should tell you something.
2007-09-10 03:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife needs a damn wake up call from you, get rid of the damn phone (or at least stop texting Dick) . If she doesnt listen to you ask her how would she feel if you were constantly texting a lady friend?
2007-09-10 04:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Deborah F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Pea I find its ok as long as he is gay, that just means they are truly friends. If the guy is straight we have a problem. It is not right and very unfair. This issue should be brought to the wife and let her know you don't appreciate it at all. Single people should act single, married people should act married. Good luck!
2007-09-10 03:54:48 · answer #11 · answered by b n real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋