My dad passed away recently. There are many of his belongings in his study room. There are books, clothes, and digital electronics. How should I deal with them?
I'm considering getting a dehumidifier to help preserve the books on the shelves. Is this the right thing to do?
For those who have encountered similar scenarios, what did you do?
2007-09-10 03:40:29 · 5 answers · asked by shuanlo 2 in Home & Garden ➔ Other - Home & Garden
Unless the room is really damp, you shuld not need a dehumidifier. If the books are really precious to you, get a book case with doors. That will help with dust, etc. on the books.
Clothes can be packed in a cedar chest if you have one or hung in a closet with cedar strips or blocks (available in lots of stores) hung to help keep them good.
I'd use the electronics. They'll be obsolete in a few years. I used my dad's clock radio for 10 years after he died, and I felt closer to him when I did so.
My symathies on your loss. It does get better with time.
2007-09-10 03:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is best to box up everything and store it for one year. At that time you will be over the worst part of your grief and will be able to deal with what to keep and what to give away with a clear head.
I too have lost my dad. My thoughts are with you and your family. As time passes, it really does become easier. If a member of your family has not recovered from their extreme grief within a year's time, please seek help for that person.
God bless you and your family.
2007-09-10 03:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not save it all . If you cant wear the clothes give to someone who can. As for the books are they something you want to be burdened with all your life or can you sell them? And the same with the electronics use or sell.
2007-09-18 00:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When our father passed away, we (the kids) got together and agreed as to who received what of my fathers.
First we divided up his personal things we wanted, amongst ourselves, then we arranged, for some of his items to go to relatives we knew would appreciate them. The remainder was auctioned off or presented to charities.
This worked out very well for us and helped us move on.
2007-09-13 18:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Joker 1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my wife of 56 years died, I gave my kids first choice, then gave her other things to charitable organizations.
I did not need things, to remind me of her. She would have been happier, knowing that people were benefiting from having the things she loved.
2007-09-10 04:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Ed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋