I mean, I'm nice to everyone, and have had many conversations with gay people, and have even enjoyed them, but a lot of gay men can't get it out of their minds, just because I'm talking with them and enjoying their company as a human being, that I will never have a gay inclination, and I'm just being friendly. My old friend Cody (gay), used to bug me and bug me, saying that he had gaydar, and shytt like that, trying to convince me that I was f***king gay. We're obviously not friends anymore. I could never leave it alone. I had another that would call me in Colorado, and ask me questions about my f***ing underwear, and, being a christian, I would just be nice. I let him know I wasn't gay, but just his friend. I often talked about girls to him, but he never got the drift. I've had a few such instances. It's like they think they can convert me or something.
2007-09-10 01:32:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
yesiamalelesbian-It is you who are ugly inside and probably out. You only wish you could look like a man like me, haha. Girls that are normal in the head like me, so f*** off, cause that's all that counts. I already said I'm nice to gay people. And I'm a babe, so go play with a d**do, because obviously no one wants you-trash.
2007-09-10 01:48:20 · update #1
http://www.flickr.com/photos/12725732@N06/1329679706/in/set-72157601880323895/
2007-09-10 01:53:08 · update #2
because gay ppl wanna get inside you pants.
2007-09-10 03:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by sexc_n_h0rny_now 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are straight people who do the same thing to gay people, too, thinking maybe they can "convert them." I know a girl who was convinced she could "convert" her gay male friend...it didn't happen. The fact that she kept on deluding herself into thinking she had some sort of "special power" to do this (lol!) eventually ruined their friendship. It happens. Some people are just too "full of themselves" to realize that they don't have the power to change someone else. Others do it because they think they are "helping" you somehow. Still others might do this because they have psychological problems and just can't seem to take "no" for an answer. Another reason may be that he deeply values (finds gratifying) the emotional closeness of your friendship and would find it ideal to get even closer. As uncomfortable as this may make you, try to view it as a compliment. You are right though, to end the friendship if someone can't take no for an answer. In fact, if it were me, I'd probably have a hard time being friends with someone someone who's gay who has expressed a sexual interest in me (because I'm straight)- it would just be kind of awkward to be around that person. Just because you ran into more than one of these types of people doesn't mean they represent the majority, though it may feel like it, to you. Try not to let it color your view of the entire gay population.
Good luck!
2007-09-10 11:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're acting a bit TOO friendly there, buddy.
It's not very fair to categorize all of the LGBT community like that.. Honestly, I've never met a gay person that tried to force their sexuality on anyone-because most of us know how that feels like.
If you respect me, I'll respect you.. I'm bisexual, and I've 'crushed' on straight girls before.. But I keep it to myself, I know nothing is going to change. Some people don't understand that sexual orientation isn't something that can change [gay people and straight people alike]. It's the same thing as when a straight guy hits on a lesbian-it's ANNOYING. The truth is though, is that people that do this probably think that they're in love with you-and are hoping for something that's impossible. That's probably why they do such things..
2007-09-10 15:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like someone else mentioned it's just like the whole religion thing. Except in this case the argument is "my sexual orientation is right" & another party saying "Nooo, MY sexual orientation is right" Obviously not all people think this way but clearly some of the people you know do. So they try to "convert" you because it doesn't matter what you or aren't. They just want you to follow their way.. also the fact that they could not respect your straightness is probably kind of a compliment.. I mean if a gay man wants you to be gay then he must be interested in some way, most-likely physically/sexually.. But once you set it straight they should respect that. & if they don't there's not much you can about it. You just have to end the friendship cos they'll never get it.
2007-09-10 11:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all its dangerous to categorize all gay people, or straight people for that matter, in a stereotype.
Many gays spent years trying to deal with their sexual orientation, something straight people dont do. Many times, that manifests itself through denial of their homosexuality. They may believe that you are going through the same experience they did. Next time someone questions your orientation, tell them matter of factly that you are not gay, and have never had any inclinations that way. If they persist, then do exactly what you have done before. Tell them that their 'badgering' makes you uncomfortable, and you have to end the friendship.
2007-09-10 08:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by patrick 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have often had in depth conversations with happy people, I live my life, they live theirs.
Why ??? Do we give names like Gay, Lesbo, Homo, ????? Don't we all just want to be happy with our partner.
I have friends who are happy with the same sex, and friends who are straight, So What!!!
We are all people, We all have different lives, We are not all the same.
I have never had anyone try to convert me, We just talk, And I have learned a lot from these conversations.
2007-09-10 08:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by misskitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question.....it may be cause you r good looking and deep down ,your friend wishes you were like him..plus the old saying is 'birds of the same feather flock together' and dont generalise ...not every gay person may treat u like ur friend....oh...how exactly did u want ur 'straightness' to be respected?
2007-09-10 14:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by standandwork 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not a people thing it is the persons you have associated yourself with, there are lots of gays out there who do not give a dam what you do its your business.
2007-09-10 08:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you're not like them. I know a gay guy who cannot stand me even though we have a lot in common. Movies, T.V. shows. But because I'm straight, he denies it constantly.
2007-09-10 12:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by tercentenary98 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a friend that was gay and he tried to get me to go to bed with him.. I mean, what was he thinking?? He knew I was straight!
That was the end of the friendship......
2007-09-10 08:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋