been my wiv partner 3 yr and had unprotected sex for 18 month wiv no luck but we really want a baby together, i have absent periods for 2 yrs and now dnt know what to do...please help!
2007-09-10 01:21:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
im not too young to buy alchol in uk its 18. i do have an education i have 10 gcse and 2 alevels. i have got a morgate on my own house and a decent job so money is not an issue.
2007-09-10 01:32:57 · update #1
egnore all the negative people on here you dont need to be married to have a baby whats a peice of paper goin to do for your baby big fat zero thats what but you need to go c a doctor i havent had a period in over a year but saying that i do have PCOS but you need to go to doctors they'll be able to fix it :) good luck :):):)
2007-09-10 22:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!
I am 20 years old and my husband is 22 years old! We have been together for 6 years! We both have good jobs and are trying for a baby too! I know people say that we are to young but we are more grown up then a lot of people we know! We also own our own home! we don't rent! We are Married! I would say go to the doctor and have them put you on medication to level out your period. If you are not having a period then you are probably not ovulating. Some doctors wont help you because you are you are young so don't mention that you are trying to have kids on your first visit. Just mention that you are not having periods! Good Luck
2007-09-10 02:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may have a condition called poly-cystic ovary syndrome. There are symptoms associated with this condition (see link) that effect ones ability to conceive naturally. Generally if you are not menstruating then more than likely your not ovulating either, which means you wouldn't be able to conceive (some women not completely) w/o medical intervention. Check out the link and information about PCOS and it's symptoms, if you think it sounds familiar then consult your gynecologist and he can confirm this situation or help you with figuring out what's wrong or prescribe some low level fertility drugs (clomid) which has been know to help women both with and without PCOS. PCOS has implications in our lives beyond having children (such as high risks of cancer, heart disease, diabetes, etc) so highly suggest you do find out whether or not this is a factor in your life. Having no cycle for as long as you have is a pretty good indicator (though not complete) of PCOS. So please do make sure you at least know what's going on with yourself medically and are informed about the condition should it apply to you. Good luck w/ everything.
2007-09-10 01:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because you want a child will not make you a good mother.
You are demonstrating this by your question. You are not stable in life and don't have a husband. despite what the angry women's league believe children need male interaction for a healthy up bringing.
You are thinking of yourself not the child. You are a child yourself and your poor decision will effect the rest of your life.
Take a moment and relax, their is no hurry. You have 15 more years to get life together and bring your child into a nice loving and financially stable home. Give your child that and at the same time you will make an adult decision.
2007-09-10 01:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey girl, I am 19 too, me and my fiance have been ttc for a year now, and was having unprotected sex from 17, I know how you feel, I usually goes a month or two without having a period, not two years, that would trigger me off, go see a gyno to find out whats wrong with your cycle, I have PCOS and my dr pescribe clomid, and met to me, I hope it works this month, dnt worry about what people say but your to young if you and your bf wants a baby well wat the heck, have one, and marry or not, if a man want stay he would, TTC#1
Baby dust to you
2007-09-10 01:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is a troll, sorry for answering. If not, you are an idiot and your boyfriend is another. If you aren't willing to commit to each other -- and you're really too young to do that -- why on earth would you want to commit to the much greater responsibility of another human being who will be totally dependent on you?
As soon as the baby is born, your priorities switch -- you are no longer the center of the world, nor is your boyfriend. The baby is the center of the world.
If you're drowning, you need to rely on the boyfriend to save the baby and let you go, because that's what parenthood is about.
Do you have faith that your boyfriend and you will be together, supporting this child with all the love and money you can manage, for the next two decades? If so, why not marry?
(You can talk to a doctor about the health issue -- you may, for instance, be too thin to conceive.)
2007-09-10 01:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by bonitakale 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You sound stressed, unstable in your relationship and completly not ready to be a parent yet. First thing is first. Your baby is entitled to 2 stable parents. Having a baby is not like having a new toy. Take a parent course. Have a serious conversation with yourself on whether or not you are stable and mature enough to nurture a baby. Once you stop feeling so stressed and finding answers, then start relaxing your body and your soul. Only then, things will happen fo you. Remember, your baby must come before you and your insecurities at all times. Are you ready for that?
2007-09-10 01:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lois L 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
first off you are way to young to be raising a child, you probably don't even live on your own yet, that means you have no real responsibilities.
Enjoy your own childhood first before thinking of bringing a child into this world.
But if you really haven't had a period in 2 years you should probably go see an OBGYN and get checked out.
2007-09-10 01:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are doing it all wrong.
#1 you are too young for children. finish your education so you can provide your child with a knowledgeable mother and not an ignorant one.
#2 you are not married
#3 you need to legal support of a husband in case he runs off
#4 you are too young
2007-09-10 01:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
im 20 and am trying to concieve, id suggest going to a doc also and just let me add a few things, 1: only you can know when you are ready, dont listen to people who tell you your too young!! and 2:the marraige thing is bull as well!! good luck!!!!! im hoping you get a big fat positive soon!!!
2007-09-10 01:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by jo_blog2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋