Do most virgos have a tough time saying no?

Question

I am a virgo and I just have a hard time saying no. I have it in my head but the first things coming out my mouth is yes Ill do it lol. ITs sad and I can't seem to control it. I mean its not like i say yes to everything , its mostly when people ask for a favor, or do you want to do this , when i really don't. Its like yes, yes , yes. But i mean nothing degrading at all. But i say I am willing to try things but not everything. I feel like in the future I am going to be a bad parent, I let my dog pee everywhere and ill just clean it up and then ill let my niece and nephew run around and I just look at them. Is that bad? haha I am so non-chalant about things it . I can't even find a decent girlfriend with these good looks. I know secretly i have confidence issues but I don't go up to females, I like them to come to me. I am a male virgo by the way. Well any fellow virgo's give me some tips or help me feel that I am not the only person like this. thanks

Answer 1

No, that was easy to say for me :)

Answer 2

Virgo is the 6th sign of the zodiac is concerned with:
* self-perfection, critical faculties
* altruism, honesty, responsibility
* cleanliness, hygiene, health, healing
* efficiency, daily routines, reliability
* strength of character, veiled sensuality
* service, hard work, passivity, modesty
* incisive communication, shrewd logical thought

Spiritual Goal
To learn to discriminate between destructive criticism and simple wisdom.

Secret Virgo
Inside anyone who has strong Virgo influences is a person who worries too much about every personal imperfection and is never satisfied with his or her own standards. Virgo may appear to know it all and be a compulsive worker; both these behaviours hide a deep fear that he or she cannot be good enough for, say, the job or the partner. Virgos crave the opportunity to serve others and take charge of many apparently mundane matters that, collectively, are the bedrock of success. One of the least expected aspects of a Virgo personality is a strong, almost volcanic sexuality that can lie hidden and dormant for years until the right partner comes along.

Positive Factors
Virgos love any pageantry that gives them an outlet for their tightly controlled emotions. Hence they are delightful companions at these events. Virgos are discriminating and have a fine artistic taste and a wealth of information on many subjects. They are not coarse and do not waste money. Virgos are loyal to their friends and will be extremely kind, considerate, and helpful.

Negative Factors
Virgos are nervous worriers, and a friend who in some way feeds the worries will reduce Virgo to a nervous heap. Virgos can be cold and critical, so a friend who softens the barbed remarks with caring laughter will bring out the Virgo wit. Most Virgos find it almost impossible to admit they are occasionally wrong.

Likes
* making lists
* a well-stocked medicine cabinet
* self-improvement courses
* punctuality
* mimicking others
* grooming self, taking showers, using nice soaps
* dealing with details
* tiny animals
* helping others
* wearing well-tailored clothes in muted colours and textures

Dislikes
* crowds and noise; brash people
* slang, vulgarity, slovenliness, and dirt
* people who whine and complain a lot
* sitting still for a long time
* disrupted schedules
* lids left off boxes, or tops off toothpaste
* being obligated to others
* people who move Virgo's personal things
* hypocrisy and deceit
* any admission of weakness or failure
*bright, bold, primary colors

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

Lol! wow! I'm a Virgo too! I didn't even notice it until you bought it up...I do the same thing as you do!!! It's good and bad both at the same time I think...

Good:
Because even though a part of you doesn't want to do the 'favor'...you're still helping someone out...like making their day easier for them which is sort of a self-fulfillment because you know deep down that you helped someone and it makes you feel needed.

Bad:
Because you encourage other people to use you as a doormat at times...

I think you should try to balance it out...do the favor but put in a smart remark once in a while about how you really shouldn't be doing the favor...(only if it seems unfair in your terms)

I don't even know if this'd make sense if you read it! wahH! oh well, I gave it a shot

Answer 4

I am deffintley like U i am a fellow Virgo only female i think that most Virgos have the need to please people and use the word yes to do it.. we say yes so that U dnt piss anyone of.. also u may have notcied that U buy people not in the sense of money but U bargain for friendship U make sure U do evrything they ask and try not to be to much in the lime ligh and as for UR love life Just hang in there Ur soulmte will meet U some day...Life isnt always about love and pleasing other people U have to live life to love it....

Answer 5

No, not at all! Not when it really matters, but yeah, they are prone to have the hands up when it comes to doing favors for others. LoL My sibling is - in my opinion, every inch a Virgo personality. Tip, when you truly need some down time, put your foot down and just say no. After all that running around, you could use some time to relax. You deserve it , don't burn yourself out.

Answer 6

You are the captain of your destiny. You can do anything you desire in the manner you feel proper. All you need is strong will power. Just you have to spend some time in deciding what you want and how you will do. Then go on according to your plan in the manner you think correct. Horoscopes can be read only for entertainment and not taken seriously. It does not matter whether you are virgo or anything else.

Answer 7

I'm a virgo,and i have no problem saying no.

Answer 8

not really.... if you believe in starsign crap think what you want.