Hi all
i have a question - i'm a crossdresser in my late 20s from the UK and i really want to go public dressed as a woman. I've ventured outside later at night when its dark and i dress up as often as i can - usually in a dark skirt suit or dark dress, kitten heels, dark stockings and full make up with a wig but i really want to do it during the day! I don't really want to go to any bars or out clubbing, i just would like to venture out in public and see what happens. I live in an apartment block (only a few apartments) so getting out might be tough though! I don't know what i can do to solve this problem.
Stacy
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2007-09-09 21:14:50 · 7 answers · asked by Stacy Denise Wilson 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well stacy theres nothing wrong w/ c-dressing but i will tell ya that u pull that at nite you cud be mistaken for a woman me personaly chit i wudnt care it dosent bug me so you should b kinda careful tats all and so what just say its yous hallowen outfit go on have ur self a trial run ...good luck ROC
2007-09-09 21:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by roc/WLA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it is not illegal so nobody can stop you. Dress sensibly and neatly. Most women do not bother with make-up so a small amount will do. . If you wear a wig make it the same colour as your own hair and nothing extreme. Then just do it. Very few people will notice you if any. Most people in the street are far more interested in their own business than looking at passers-by The walk can be a give away but some woman walk like men anyway. Wear low heels and walk by putting on foot in front of the other. Finally the most important thing CONFIDENCE. Walk as though you belonged there, which you do, and nobody will bother you. I have been through that stage but now I work one day a week for a local housewife and clean her front windows and her car on the front drive in my maid's uniform and don't give any thought to the people walking by.
the only time I ever attracted any attention, and then it was only from a couple of teenage boys, was when I went out wearing a scarlet rubberised rain cape with gold buttons.
2007-09-10 06:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen hun, just do it! At the end of the day it is your life, to be fair it wouldnt bother me if I saw you. You are you! Try to look natural like someone your own age, check out what girls wear. I mean the short mini may be fun, but even I wouldnt wear that to go down the shops....! Just smile, get yourself ready open the door and go out!
2007-09-09 23:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Maria S © 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pluck up the courage and go for it. I tried the cinema first and some hotles and gay bars after you get confidence it is easy. good luck.
2007-09-10 00:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by scotteaseme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very dangerous thing to do on your own - particularly where you live.
Have you nobody who could help you with this?
2007-09-11 00:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try joining a support group, there are lots
2007-09-09 21:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been going out for the past 50 years, if you want any help please get intouch
2007-09-12 06:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋