i finally got an explanation about why my friendship supposedly ended, and her explanation bared no resemblance to reality whatsoever-that's not my opinion, either, it's sadly true! anyway, i agree we're done...and she doesn't even want my side of things, along with no more communication whatsoever. my question is this...although i have no problem not communicating with her in the future, i'm dying to at least let her know how wacky and outrageous her explanation is. would it be terribly out of line, if i do indeed have every intention of backing off afterward, if i sent a return e-mail saying..."i agree with you that things are over,and there should be no more communication,good luck too" and then casually mention how "crazy" she was,but in a diplomatic way.this is really not about getting the last word,i just can't believe what i read.if i tried explaining this to you,you wouldn't believe me at first.should i let it be,or can i send that last e-mail if i keep it short,and diplomatic?
2007-09-09 20:13:01 · 2 answers · asked by abc123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's up to you. If you can deal with her possibly sending yet another wacky email to you, then go for it if it makes you feel better. Whatever gives you closure, and doesn't cause more problems.
2007-09-09 20:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by missmuffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell it to your therapist, friend, clergyman, or journal. She doesn't want to hear it. Too bad, but most people aren't polite and considerate, and don't want to help a former partner resolve their feelings about a relationship. It is not appropriate for you to force your feelings about it onto her now. Next time find a partner who is more sensitive and able to communicate better. Good luck.
2007-09-10 03:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by GENE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋