i split with my partner who leftme in debt,im feeling very depressed would luv some one to chat or advice?

Answer 1

This happened to me..and it is quite common so don't be too hard on yourself. The way I thought of it was, I apparently needed to go into that amount of debt to realize I shouldn't be in the relationship...when I looked at it that way, it made all of the debt worth it :)
Things will get better, just look at it as a learning experience and move on!

Answer 2

firstly there are many experts out there who could help you sort out serious debts if this is the case in the uj we have citizens advice bureaux and take it from there alternateively some solicitors do a free advice hour.
you are probably not responsible for all the debt and a solicitor might be able to send some to your ex or companies may have to write it off
if the debt is not that serious make yourself some time and space, buy a big bar of chocolate and get a huge cup of coffee. then sit down for a couple of hours and write down what you owe to everyone and how much youve got coming in(make sure your getting everything your entitled to)descide what you need to live on and be sensible. thenprioritse your debts working out what can be paid to each one
some companies will settle for less if you can pay them off believe it or not
gas and electric can be spread over a year if you explain
what can you manage without eg extra tv services
shop cheaply using sell by dated stuff bought for next to nothing as the shops close (usually 1 hour before closing)
gey household stuff and clothes from charity shops (theyre great)
get a friend to help you or relative if you cant do it in youre own
good luck, it wont last forever and dont forget to enjoy yourself ,life will turn around

Answer 3

Im not so hot on the advice but i do know how you feel as having been in the same position i the past ..jump in and i m me if you feel like a chat ..any time ,,, you just have to take one day at a time xx

Answer 4

My sister is going through the exact same thing. She's not exactly bright so she needs help figuring it all out. But first you need to figure out what is the first thing you need to do, deal with it, and then move on to the next. Yes, you have to juggle everything, but start with the most important. Maybe getting an attorney is something you might need. But just keep chugging along, and one day it just won't hurt anymore. I promise. You won't feel this way forever.

Answer 5

You split with your ex that left you in debit you should be happy, That your not with him any longer get your self together and stop feeling sorry for your self and just relax and read a good book and listen to some light music.

best of luck

Answer 6

this is okay which you have solid feeling for somebody once you had a chop up 3 months in the past. each and every person's differant so for you it may look quickly yet to others it ok yet in simple terms take issues slow and sometime at a time. solid success!

Answer 7

GO JOIN A SUPPORT GROUP...
and know who u are dealing with...

look for manic depressive groups,, or single groups...

or parents w/o partners..
if ur female.. be careful out in public.. things have changed...

Answer 8

That happens sometimes. Try to gradually pay them off. If you can get your partner to agree to help you, it would be nice. After all, you did once love each other.

Answer 9

its going b hard 4 while until ur able 2 finally get on ur own feet i was their well i'm still a little depressed

Answer 10

If he left you in debt I assume you only want to chat with someone who has a healthy bank account!