I have a new girl friend. She devorced not long ago
We came to like each other, already had sexual realationship. Recently we decided to live together .
Accidentally I found her ex husband photo on her bag,She is still keeping it. sometimes somebody called her mobile she didint want to talk beside me.I became jealous.
Last night we had an arguement, cuz it happened again .She told me it was nobody.But I couldnt believe her.I was pretty uncomfortable.
But now I think
anyway we are not married even if she meets somebody else why do I have to care ?Our sex is still great I can sleep feeling her warm body,Isnt it enough for me?
But I cant stant it if she cheats on me. Agony remains in my heart.
I dont believe her words maybe she told the truth.
I cant say I love her but so involved emotionally and physically.I feel an agony
2007-09-09 18:11:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
To be happy, you have to trust, what does your heart say? listen to it, not your mind. People often forget to listen to the heart, that is where love is, we all have things that need to get over in a relationship.Trust is the biggest issue most of the time. Learn to trust, until she gives you a reason not to. Good Luck
2007-09-09 18:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by msharleylover68 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you cannot trust this woman, the sex may be a serious issue. You didn't mention using condoms - how do you know she isn't doing someone else? You use the word "new" girlfriend. Maybe you are rushing the moving in together thing. You say maybe she told you the truth - well the fact is she didn't tell you anything. She chose not to respond. That s not a good sign. You need to clear up the rules here. If you are an exclusive or if you aren't. If she is a free woman, unmarried, then she isn't cheating on you because you don't own her. I think you should slow down. If you want to sleep with something warm, get an electric blanket or a wife you can trust. Pax - C
2007-09-10 01:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Persiphone_Hellecat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you must ask yourself is; Do you know her? As opposed to trusting her? If you reduce the chaos factor of "trust", then you will not have troubles. I *trust* you wont kick me in the nuts, but what if you do? I *know* you wont jog my jewels, therefore I wont flinch a bit. Does this make sense?
2007-09-10 01:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Shoe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said '...if she meets somebody else why do I have to care?'
You also said 'I can't say I love her...'
Well, in my opinion you're best off focusing on those two things that you said and don't expect anything more for now.
2007-09-10 01:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not a case of trust...you used someone to satisfy your carnal desires..thats it....now u r happy feeling her warm body mentally..the passion is fast dissapearing..you need an excuse to dump her...so u have come up w/this pathetic question..start trusting yourself.
2007-09-10 01:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by standandwork 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋