today someone very special to me really f**ked me over, for no reason at all, so should i get them back or should i just let it go? i'm really hurt right now, especially because i didn't even see it coming and i didn't do a thing to deserve it!
2007-09-09 16:59:14 · 22 answers · asked by Modernday_Aphrodite 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Let it go, but not before letting that special someone know you were hurt. Failing to communicate it would be worse, long term. "I"f they really are special they deserve the opportunity to repent or ask forgiveness, and you get to hear the explanation straight from the horses mouth. Our imaginations can be terrible task masters, and left to their own devices it can only breed contempt. Best case, you saved a relationship - worst case, you know the unadulterated truth and can move forward. Either way it's Win-Win for you.
2007-09-10 02:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what sweetheart I think the only kind of revenge he deserves is for you to act as if it hasn't affected you, although you are clearly in pain now, you will get over him beauty. You were too good for him by far, don't let him make you bitter and resentful. Although it was an awful thing to do to you, it just shows what a low life he is. I am sending a huge hug and a kiss on the cheek from Nottingham, England. xx . I really hope you feel better about the situation soon.
2007-09-10 00:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by itsjustme 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there so many times, it's definally hurtful. But just let it go for now don't do anything while your still mad. Usually things work itself out and revenge will just make things worse
2007-09-10 00:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Megs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, "will I be better off if I seek revenge?" If they are really special to you, remember your relationship should survive this ordeal. On the other hand, you need to stand up from abusive treatment and not be a doormat. Make sure you make the decision based on calm judgment.
2007-09-10 09:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are hurt and pissed right now and you want to lash out, that would be immediate gratification, but let it go, if you don't it will only create drama and more issues and aggravation you will have to deal with, in the long run is it really worth it
2007-09-10 01:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Not any more but i used to be a very vindictive person "Eye for an Eye". but i realized i was a very bitter person because of it , so now i just let things go. what goes around comes around, they will get whats coming to them all by themselves. you shouldn't pollute your soul with dark things like vengeance. you will be a better person for it , and you have a clear conscience.
2007-09-10 00:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Drake Deth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. No good can come from revenge, it only makes more problems for you. You don't need that. Let it go and move on.
2007-09-10 00:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sheriff of Yahoo! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that Letting it go is hard. I feel ya because I am trying to decide that as well...I am leaning towards letting it go because I want to be a better person. Not for them but for me. Ya know> Good luck honey!!!! I hope this all works out for you. People can suck!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-10 00:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by Isabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have something really good planned for revenge, then I will go along with it, otherwise I let it go...
2007-09-10 00:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Keep your chin up & act like a lady. Revenge is childish.
2007-09-10 00:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by GoAskAlice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋