me and my gf just broke up.im am a gay female.im so sad.but i dont know what to do.she neva had time for me.she cheated on me.idk what to do.i love her so much.should i just move on and say **** her.help me asap
2007-09-09 16:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I know it's hard to let go of someone you love, but if she cheated on you once, she'd very likely do it again. You will definitely be better off in the long run by moving on.
Only time will ease the pain, but you WILL find happiness again, even though I'm sure it doesn't feel that way now. There is another girl out there somewhere who will make time for you and never even think of cheating.
2007-09-09 17:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by goldenrose82 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over her, she didn't know how to receive the love of a real woman anyway. Cry all you have to but don't call her or get in touch with her until your wounds are healed. It will be hard but realize that you deserve better. A girl that won't cheat on you and stuff. So take some time off to heal then get back in the scene and believe me the new person will feel a lot better than this other cheater.
2007-09-09 18:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by TrollDollLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what.. she doesn't deserve you. Be thankful that you have broken up now then later to prevent further heartache. I've been in your shoes and I know how you feel. Altho it hurts like hell but your heart will mend again. Time heals. You can dwell in all the sadness now and take your time healing.. and I bet you will soon.
Look at the positive side, once you are mended and whole again, you become a wiser and mature new being. That is priceless.
2007-09-09 17:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by sillyputty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have years of positive history to build on and a huge reserve of trust from before the cheating, you're not going to recover from this as a couple. Move on. Say **** her for now, privately, if it makes you feel better, but show some respect -- in a year she might be your best friend.
2007-09-09 16:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
2007-09-09 17:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Zaggy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
broken hearted life is to short to be spending time and pain just waiting around.now,is the time to find yourself and what you want out of life.enjoy people don't get involved to fast.go slow enjoy people and friends have a blass.learn to love yourself.
2007-09-09 18:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by BETTY D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no body deserves to be cheated on. and there is ALWAYS someone else out there.
there are way more fish in the sea girl. go out and have some fun. **** her for cheating on you.
her loss, NOT YOURS = )
2007-09-09 17:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find someone who will not cheat on you. Your heartache will pass.
Best of luck to you.
2007-09-09 17:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by tonyabarrz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry . Try and be happy for the good times you shared . Dont hang your head .
2007-09-10 16:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amanda is on track, sweetie, move on
2007-09-09 17:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by AliBaba 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋