i didnt get my menses for almost 2 months.the last time i got it on 21 june.then,i my boyfriend forced me to have sex with him on 8 august.we were wearing clothes on us.even after that i didnt get my menses.i did ultrasound check up and urine test, and the doctor said that i have hormone problems, thats why didnt get my menses.she gave me some medicine.but still nothing came out.and again she gave me another new medicine and i am taking it now.all i want is to get my menses.i dont want to get pregnant because my boyfriend is not being responsible.do u have any opinion?
2007-09-09 16:16:02 · 12 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hi Rachel,
1~It's time to get a new boyfriend!!! You should NEVER let someone force you to do something, you don't want to do. If you're boyfriend is forcing you, he certainly doesn't care about you or respect your feelings.
2~ Stress, loosing weight & hormones can effect your cycle. Have you lost a lot of weight lately? Women athletes stop bleeding due to low body weight. Their cycle returns, once they stop competing.
2007-09-10 04:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rachel,
Do you have some time and money to see a TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine). If you are not pregnant (you can check yourself with a product from stores), then the first changes in our body is an indication of an imbalance caused by a lot of aspects, stress in special.
Most of a TCM specialist is offering a free consultation and after that each time you go can be about $50.They can tell you the cause of the imbalance, and they can fix the problem.
If not fixed, in time, the imbalance lead to ilnesses.
I am a person with a lot of trust in this methods since I use it for myself, ones to fix a hormonal medication, second I am doing right now again for a different reason, still feminine problem. If you read a little about this TCM will make more sense to you, and might help with your stress and the problem.
On the other hand you should give a second thought of why you are on the actual relation? better have good reasons, and if you think you can do better (first without) then do not spend your life with somebody that you do not want to be in the future.
Take care,
wellbeing is what it important!
Simona
2007-09-17 08:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Simi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to dump your boyfriend and forget about sex until you get your hormones straight. Your body and your health should come before this boy and if he forced you, why would you stay with him he does not care about you, he would never force you to have sex with him, honey please grow up before you end up being a mother before you are ready this idiot of a boyfriend will not be there for you if you become pregnant he is just as you said not RESPONSIBLE!
keep your legs together and run this boy off and you will see that your problem will get better and you will not have to worry about getting pregnant any more. Now you have my opinion I hope you will stop and think about what I have said, the boy is just after sex and do not let him ever force you again. you have to be responsible this is your body and if you don't take care of it this idiot surely won't. Please, get rid of this boy and all of your problems will go away, he will hurt you if you don't get rid of him now. I am only worried about you I don't know you but I want to help you. Make me a contact of yours and if you need to ask me anything else I will be here to help you.
2007-09-17 13:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sorry to hear about your bf. But you may be going through menopause. I can understand that you don't want to get pregnant but you need to tell your bf to back off. If the doctor is giving you meds that don't work then you should see if you have an infection of some sort. Sometimes meds won't work if you have infections. But if you are going through menopause then there is no getting your menses back I'm really sorry to say. I hope this helps. :-|
2007-09-17 14:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by bunnyhop b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, first off dump the jerk. If he forces you again, file rape charges against him. But I wouldn't even give him that chance.
He is abusive, and the stress of an abusive relationship may be what is causing all your problems.
Get rid of him, he may say he loves you, but NO man that loves him woman forces her to do ANYTHING, especially have sex.
If you are a minor, tell your parents right now what he is doing.
If you are of age, get a friend to help you break it off from him and keep away from him.
If he forces the issue, by harassing you, call the police and file charges on him.
There is no reason for you to have to take his abuse.
Then maybe your body can heal, or at least you can concentrate on healing it, and not having to push the abuser off.
2007-09-09 16:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by litecandles 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
After another week or so, take a pregnancy test.
As for the boyfriend, get rid of him. I'm not trying to be mean, but forcing you to have sex is against the law. No means no. Please be careful and take care of yourself. Good luck.
2007-09-09 16:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by kiki 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Stress lil' mama, stress. Also diet- go talk to a nutritionist, or perhaps a therapist. I'd recommend flying solo for a while that man is gettn' you down.
2007-09-09 16:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by josie1126 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dump your dumb a$s boyfriend, you don't need him. you should report him too. but how is it sex if you were wearing clothes? do you mean like shirts and no pants or something? just dump the guy you call a boyfriend, go to the doctor, call the cops, and move on.
2007-09-09 16:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by BroncosGirl6 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend forced you to have sex then that is rape. The question that you have to ask yourself, is what type of boyfriend is he if he is capable of forcing you to have sex. I would recommend you reexamine your relationship with this person. Does not sound like this relationship is on solid ground.
2007-09-09 16:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by michael45672007 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think you are taking all the right options to help your cause. keep making visit to the doctor and they should help you.
2007-09-17 06:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋