ive had nothing but bad experiences with women......
maby i should just forget about being with anybody
2007-09-09 16:02:28 · 24 answers · asked by That Guy 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sure. What's your address. I'll mail you a copy of the Gay Agenda.
2007-09-09 16:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by robert 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Well if you are having bad experiences with women then have you thought maybe you are the problem? Looking at your other questions you should only have one woman, your wife. If you have more the one women, then thats why you are having bad experiences!! STOP CHEATING! Wait, are you cheating on your wife with a man? Is this why you think you should become gay? I'm all confused now. So maybe your having bad experiences with women because really deep down inside your gay and you have been holding it back. So did you cheat on your wife with a male or female? Or are you not in love with her because she is female? Or are you having issues with her because you believe you can't be with a female? There are alot of questions now. How do you feel inside? Is it like the Crying Game or Broke Back Mountain? Or is it like some of the Congressmen out there. You need time to think about it.
2007-09-10 00:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know you're not being serious, and you probably know better, that people don't just "become gay." You either are or you aren't. You can't force an attraction anymore than you can switch your feelings off. But as someone else mentioned, gay relationships have just as many problems as straight ones. We get cheated on, we get our hearts broken when the other person finds someone else they like better, we get abused, etc... So even if you could "become gay," you'd still have just as many problems as you're having now. The only difference would be you would be having these problems with another gender than you're used to.
2007-09-09 23:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by goldenrose82 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you ever had a gay experience ? If so then your probably already gay. If you haven't , your probably not gay. So why try to be something your not just cuz your having a little bad luck with the girls. But honestly , I think you are gay already and just don't want to admit it or something , why else are you on a gay site asking if you should become gay ? Just be yourself and all will work out.
2007-09-10 02:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Roy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm pretty sure the prerequisite for being gay is an interest in men, not bad luck with women.
Maybe you should not worry about being with anybody until you are right with yourself, first. Other people really can smell low self-esteem. Work on you, and your life will happen.
2007-09-09 23:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that should be a reason for you to think of changing your sexual preference: At least not this early in the game. You might just be going through a dry time, but you have to keep your head up. It's much easier for you to continue on in hopes of finding the right person, than changing your preference all together.
And speaking of sexual preferences: They are traits that are different for everyone, including how they are expressed. You can't decide one day to be gay, because most of the time: Sexual preference is a trait that thrives because of genetic and (Or) societal factors. In order for you to actually do that (Because you don't have control over your genetics), you would have to use years of conditioning to even get a good attempt at changing. You would have to stop liking women, and start liking men, which is fine, but like I said: It's much harder to condition yourself for a trait, than to simply let whatever traits (Or propensity to traits) thrive within you.
I'd say you should keep trying.
2007-09-09 23:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Kenshiro 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you're making a joke, but no one "becomes" gay. You either are gay or you're not.
But to answer your question, gay relationships are no easier than straight ones. I'd recommend you leave women alone for a bit until you're ready to jump back in. And maybe you need to date different kinds of women and also examine yourself to see if there is anything you did wrong.
Good luck and God bless you.
2007-09-09 23:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Michael B - Prop. 8 Repealed! 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
there is no reason to 'turn' gay because you can't. you'll never be gay unless thats who u actually are. and even if you could just 'turn' gay thats not a good enough reason. don't give up everyone has someone out there thats pefect for them.
2007-09-09 23:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ethan S <3 Da Ben Dan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww sorry you feel this way. you need to pick yourself up and get back in the game. dont 'become' gay. ur gay if you know it inside. your born gay you dont become gay. dont try to be if ur not. theres alot of ppl who dont deserve to get into a messy relationship like that. just dont give up. theres a girl out there for you (or guy if you really do think ur gay)
2007-09-09 23:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by BooYa 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
unless you're actually gay or bisexual, it will never work. no one can "become" gay. you can't change who you innately are...it's not a choice, it's genetic...how you're born.
regardless of whether you are straight or gay, there's no difference in relationships either way. a relationship is something that both people have to want and have to work at equally.
2007-09-09 23:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋