mine is CONTROLLING other people flaws!! haha.
but, seriously.... i like for people to behave a certain way (nice, of course); and if they don't, i try to correct the situation.
Now, I am trying to let people be!! when they are ready to change, they will do it withOUT my help!!
Interestingly enough, this is giving me great peace for myself!!
2007-09-09 15:53:27 · 32 answers · asked by 100% ♥Creole♥ 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Mine is negativity. Yes, Really! I've really turned into quite the pessimist. I'd like to change that.
2007-09-10 06:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People have no right to control another person.
People who want to control others have major issues and prey on those who are weak.
I think I know what you mean; I didn't mean you control people in a dictator like way.
I know others who really try to "control" the way a person lives; they have no right to do that especially when they're not involved in your life and you have no negative affect on their life.
They are controlling and self-righteous to a degree that they should not be. End of that.
Character flaws: I honestly don't like to refer to myself as having character flaws; if anything, yes, I could make many changes in my life that would give me peace and relief.
You can always try to help others in a constructive way and if you see it's not going anywhere; it's time to stop. You are wearing yourself out mentally and emotionally. Some will never change as all of us will never change certain things about ourselves. That's what makes us the characters we are.
Sorry if need be; don't take personally.
PEACE OUT!!!!
2007-09-09 16:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by cut-it-out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep -- letting things go like that does bring peace. Pushing bad people out of your life can make your life your own -- I've done it with my brother-in-law and I've never been happier!!
My personal thing I hate is that I cry easily and I'm 49 years young -- always had that problem. I wish it didn't happen but it does......movies, everything emotional -- my kids things at school, etc. when they were growing up. Needless to say, I don't wear makeup!! LOL
2007-09-09 15:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though i treat people kindly and am fairly generous i think like a narcisist 100% of the time..maybe thats one everyone has
oh and i'd like to stop being such a wuss about girls. basically not obsessing over whether or not they'll say no
also being willing to stand up for myself physically when it's necessary, i'm in pretty good shape and there's this guy who has done so much terrible stuff to me i really just need to punch him back
like just yesterday this kid shot me 6 times with an airsoft gun and when he put the gun down i snuck behind him picked it up and couldnt get myself to pull the trigger. i sat there with it aimed at him behind his back and couldnt pull the dang trigger. and when he turned around i shot him once in the leg, dropped it and ran
2007-09-09 15:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Will M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trying to be more social. I'm so shy, and I know that shyness isn't very good for a person like me. I have so much rebel inside, and I can't let loose because I'm so shy and afraid of my parents getting me in trouble or something.
2007-09-09 15:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have OCD badly!! I worry about any and everything that I do not feel in control of! I over think things so much that i miss so many great opportunities. I will literlly pick apart every aspect of myself and obsess over my short comings. It totally sucks!!!
2007-09-09 15:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by countrygirl28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt go to Dizzay.com because the person who runs the site is a major hacker and was recently reported for Internet Crimes based up hacking into users systems and messing with their IP addresses.
Dizzay.com will be pending a federal investigation for internet crime. The owner if you mess with his girl and I can give you the name if you like he has access to your computer and he locks your webpages. If you dont want your computer hacked do not go to dizzay.com and register with them.
2007-09-09 15:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Snuggles wants to Kill you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is trying to correct peoples spelling and grammar in Answers. It drives me crazy when I see really bad English. I guess I should think English is not their first language.
2007-09-09 16:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that I'm too independent, almost to a fault. Guys will try to reach down and help me lift something, and I'll say, "I can get it!" I'm beginning to learn that a man needs to feel wanted and needed, and by asserting my Independence constantly, I'm taking that away.
2007-09-09 15:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by C. J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sice turning my life over to God, i have made many personal changes and I celebrate that fact and thank Jesus for working within me, but i am still too judgemental. It's my greatest challenge!!
2007-09-09 16:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by daddyz_gurl_emg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋