You completely lacked social skills...suffered from anxiety and rage control...and felt a hollow hole in your heart everyday excpet for when you drank...(alcoholic)...if you became to good at hiding your problems...
2007-09-09 15:07:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Drinking does hide your feeling, but good ones too.i do feel like that at times, but i need asistance in that department, for my heart bleeds for all.And the more you help others the more trouble you get in. And misunder stood. duh , lol, you got a gun for me.
2007-09-09 15:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by vintagemale1951 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Although I may feel like it sometimes. I am an alcoholic and pothead. I used to get in a lot of trouble sometimes. I would be embarrassed and wish I was dead.
I have 3 years clean and sober and feel much better. I suffer from some anxiety but not really rage.(I loose my temper once in a while, but am usually too easy-going.)
Life is not easy, but it does have some rewards. Hang in there girl.
Good Luck!
2007-09-09 22:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by John L 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cant explain a situation in a better manner. You right i have felt like this. This is the truth and the absolute truth dear. But then Christ reached out to me and when he filled me with the peace of his blessed Holy spirit , everything turned great. I understood that everybody has a hole or a vacuum in their hearts . 1.some fill it with money. 2.some with fame 3. some with sex 4. some with alcohol. 5 some with love of humans.
Only thing that can really fill that hole or vacuum in our hearts is the Blessed Holy spirit of the Lord .
Praise the Lord for his love and mercy
2007-09-10 07:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Antony 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. I consider life to be a challenge to be conquered. I lack social skills, and I see this as an obstacle for me to bludgeon my way through. Giving up never really seemed an option for me. One think I found, personally, was that most of my problems in life cleared up after I sobered up. I was a heavy drug user for a time, and cleaning up just seemed to fix the lion's share of my problems, so give it a try. You really have to want it, nobody can do it for you. Try AA. Talk to your close friends, you'd be surprised how much they care, and how much support and help they can provide. Another thing I have found is that having something to be proud of in your life is one of the most powerful things one can have. Sobering up is a HUGE achievement, and knowing you are strong enough to overcome a debilitating disease such as addiction by nothing other than sheer willpower is a powerful thing. Focus on that. I will gladly provide any other advise or help I can for someone who wants to clean up, so just e-mail me. Even if you just want someone to talk to. Everyone has the power within them to do this. If I can be sober without a slip up for more than 6 years, you can do it too. Good luck.
2007-09-09 22:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I heard a quote "Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem." The real problem isn't social phobias or alcoholism, it's something else that might drive someone to suicide. No I wouldn't kill myself over anything you mentioned, the loss of a child; now that might do it for me. Social skills, anxiety, rage & alcoholism are all problems that can be addressed and made manageable.
2007-09-09 22:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Michael E 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not enough information. I've got terrible social anxiety, and it has caused me all kinds of problems, but I don't really consider suicide to be an option because I have a daughter, and I'm afraid it would really screw her up if I ever did that.
You also have to consider whether you're able to deal with your problems and have a good life. Of course being able and being willing are two different things.
2007-09-09 22:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jonathan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I have had to deal with a lot of different issues than most and even though I"ve been severely depressed and had to go into the hospital I have never thought that life wasn't worth living. Life is to short to give up on and when you die you can't have a do over. No one ever said that life would be easy and that we would have no problems, It's how we deal with those problems that gives our life meaning and shows us what kind of character that we have.
2007-09-10 02:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! I would work towards finding answers to improve my life. I was an alcoholic pill popper that lived off beer, cigs, and pills to make me feel better and then one day I realized that I have everything I need in my control to change what is bothering me.. what a rewarding feeling it is to know you can honestly change things and make a positive difference!
2007-09-09 22:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by madison5247 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Social skills can be learned.
Rage can be dealt with.
A hole in the heart can be closed.
Not really a reason for suicide form my perspective.
It's possible that you might just enjoy being alone and this is what it takes to make it so.
2007-09-09 23:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by guru 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alcohol is not good for the blood stream , It's like running little daggers threw your vains ,, they will kill you slowly , the body heals the little nicks and cuts only to be recut with each new application ,, that doesn't seem to bother alcoholics the fact that their killing themselves one little cut at a time . untill old age sets in and the liver gives up fighting , little ulsers start to run wild and the pain becomes 100% unbarable ,every time their heart beats it just kills them ... alcohol no longer pretends to work ,, { Be Carefull }
2007-09-09 22:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have that same problem but I NEVER turn to drinking to solve my problems. All it does is make you act stupid, embarrass yourself, and TEMPORARILY numb the pain. Never kill yourself. All it will do is give you the easy way out while those who love you suffer. To me, suicide is like cheating in life. Don't make your friends and family go through such a big loss. There are many people out there that love you and if you loved them, you wouldn't do that to them.
2007-09-09 23:13:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋