no gay clothes or hair, not too obsessive about hygiene, talks like a normal guy, no sign of being gay at all. do a lot of guys go through this?
2007-09-09 13:33:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
its his business not urs
2007-09-09 13:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by tasty 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
First, there is no such a thing as acting gay, having gay clothes or hair, or any other such "signs." Gay people are as normal as anyone else. Plenty of straight men act or dress in ways that some people would call effeminite. It would probably make your brother very uncomfortable to approach him and ask if he is gay or tell him you found his porn. It would also show him you possibly betrayed his trust and privacy. If I were in this position, I would wait for a time when homosexuality came up naturally in a conversation and be sure I mentioned that if a family member or someone I loved were gay it would not matter at all to me and that I would completely love, accept, and support that person. Your brother needs to know he is not going to lose you if you find out he is gay.
2007-09-09 16:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably gay. You should give him a hug. The hair, clothes, hygiene, etc. do not mean that ANYONE is gay. It just means they choose to focus on their appearance. I think that you should really think about this & about your brother. So what if he is gay? Does that really change anything between the two of you? No, it doesn't.
2007-09-09 13:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no GAY WAY of acting, hygiene, clothes or hair....don't be a dunce. Its ignorant statements like that, that will prevent your brother from opening up to you if he is gay!!!!
He's the same guy you love, give him a break and stop stereotyping people!!
2007-09-09 14:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by Divine Miss M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no signs, only if he is 'into' guys then he is gay. You can't determine someones orientation by his/her clothes. MTV and the like has lead the public to believe that Gay people have a certain style of clothing, and talk and walk funny.
2007-09-09 13:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by ҡʏʟɛ - ❄ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
positioned the porn back the place ya discovered it, permit him confer with you whilst he's comfortable related to the subject rely frequently via 19yo, a individual has a extraordinarily solid concept in the event that they're gay now a days. the sole actual determination in touch is whether or no longer or no longer they experience they are in a position to be common approximately it. Hehheee and not all gay adult adult males are 'obsessed' with hygiene---regrettably. There are gay adult adult males in extraordinarily plenty each and every occupation and walk of life.
2016-11-14 19:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by dagnone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,you shouldn't have been going through his stuff,second,you shouldn't put all your knowledge of a group of people based on stereotypes,Third,it really isn't your business,its his.Whether hes gay or not,only he knows and its up to him to share this information with you if and when he chooses.Also,if and when that time comes, your only concern should be to let him know that you love and support him and care about his happiness. Best wishes to you both. =D
2007-09-09 13:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by no longer here 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would just try and forget about it.
If he's gay, he's gay.
He's still your brother, he still loves you and he hasn't changed at all.
Just give yourself time to adjust. This kind of thing happens EVERY DAY.
2007-09-09 13:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just curios right now.He might even be feeling inadaquit in the penis size and wanted to find out how he measures up.
2007-09-09 16:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by cog1233 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there's 90 per cent chance he is, because I have a friend just like that. Be nice to him, accept him as he is; and if you could try to dissuade him living the kind of lifestyle he plans to, I know it's very hard, but it's our duty to keep trying. Give him information about the dangers of that lifestyle/sex style.
2007-09-09 13:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
1st why do you look through his stuff? Second people do not have to act gay. third, why do you keep asking this question?
2007-09-09 17:19:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋