I met him in a chatroom, and I'm not allowed in those. I dunno tell her we met. I really love him and loves me, we've been together for quite a while. I just don't know how to break the news. Please help me.
2007-09-09 13:30:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
We have met in person
2007-09-09 13:48:10 · update #1
This has nothing to do with coming out. My mom knows im gay. I am 17 and my boyfriend is 15. And no, we are not having sex.
2007-09-09 14:08:23 · update #2
You do not have to break the news at all. I am assuming that you still live at home and if so you may be under the age of consent (18). If this is the case and feel as though you need to tell your mother about this you may have to deal with the consequences if it turns out that she does not approve.
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Your mother cannot live your life for you. Keep your business to yourself. That's the one right you DO have. You're in love, it feels good, and I know you want to tell the world. Until you are either old enough and have the right to make your own decisions I should keep your personal life to yourself.
Good luck and try to have a happy life. That is what your mother wants the most for you.
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2007-09-09 14:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by ericbryce2 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you think she'll accept it, then just tell her. Don't think about it too much, and don't plan word for word what you will say. Just be honest and let her know that you are definitely gay, and that you have a boyfriend who you like very much.
Does he live close to you? You could say that you met him through a friend at school or something like that.
2007-09-09 20:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It might make a difference ( my advice ) if i knew your age. assuming you are younger, everyone is different. when i came out, it was difficult. in retrospect, i could have handled it much better. but with time (20 years) its pretty much a non issue. it usually gets better with time. dont worry too much. sometimes coming-out can wait. does she really need to know at this point. talk to other people (any friends?), and i would have to know your mom a little before i gave you any more advice.peace! and good luck.
2007-09-09 21:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by sodertalje66 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly, that is a very personal decision and you need to be the one to decide. I didn't tell my mother, she asked me. So I'm afraid I can't share much. But, I suggest telling her where she can take a few days to deal with it. Some parents take it very well, but others take it very badly. Be prepared for the worst.
2007-09-09 21:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Bring himn home and make up a story of how you met at the mall, if you don;t want her to know about the chatroom
2007-09-09 21:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's to everyone's benefit that you break the news as soon as possible I guess. Just tell her, being your mom, what else can she do, but to accept what is and continue to love you and your friend.
2007-09-09 20:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by tigerlilyinparis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My partner and I met through a singles phone system. In actuality, we met at a restaurant. I like to say we met on a blind date. It kind of was....
2007-09-09 20:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by mpst63 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So, if you met him in person ....where did you meet?
..at the Mall, a restaurant. etc....cause that's not a LIE....that's where you MET
2007-09-09 22:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you met in person? if not then let it go until you do.
2007-09-09 20:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by richmorecockagainandagain 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Say, Mom I have a boy friend...very simple (unless you are a boy)
2007-09-09 22:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by JohnF 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋