And i just saw this question, it was this 14 year old girl complaining about how no one thinks she is responsible enough for her daughter. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!! 14 years old?? She doesn't need a baby, or have any bussiness having sex at 14. I want a baby. Yall should go check out the question. That infuriates me. Just leave your comments, get two easy points. Good luck to all you women who have been trying hard with no avail...
2007-09-09 12:51:40 · 13 answers · asked by **Mom of two angels in Heaven** 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Sweetheart you are 14 and have a child. You are to young to be having sex, I think you are the one hat needs to grow up.
2007-09-10 09:27:14 · update #1
I saw that too! It's just...it takes 9 months to have a baby, so at the oldest she had to have been having sex at 13, maybe 12! It's not that she has a baby really...it's that she was having sex, unprotected, at 12 or 13! And I'm sure deoends on her parents to support her AND her child! She thinks it's fine because she has no problems taking her parent's money to take care of her baby, but reality will hit eventually. She isn't even old enough for a job...it's sad. And there's 20, 30, amd 40 year old women on here that haven't had #1 yet that are trying so hard...it's not fair, especially to her child...
2007-09-09 12:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
That's so ridiculous. My cousin got pregnant at 13 and had the baby when she was 14, she's much older now but who do you think took care of that baby most of the time? My cousin's parents. Anyway, the point is that at age 14 we should be having crushes on boys, and hanging out with friends, NOT trying to raise babies!!! What is this world coming to! Then all these psycho people out there have babies - and do things like put them in a heated oven, and drown them - but the people who really deserve them, never get them right away and will go through any lengths to have 1.....
2007-09-09 20:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by ppL L0ve 2 hAt3 m3 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Last week my husband and I went to my 21 week check up. There was a girl in the waiting room who could not have been more than 15. When I was being weighed in we overheard her laughing to the nurse that she got out of her first day of school for the appointment. My husband commented that it probably took her no time a all to get pregnant, while we had been trying for over 4 years and went through hell to conceive our baby. Go figure...it's just sad.
2007-09-09 20:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It happened and now she's dealing with it. At least she's taking care of her responsibilities! I know many adults that should not be parents because they leave there children with 14 year old baby sitters so they can go do there thing. I guess my point is leave the poor girl alone and worry about your own business!!!!
2007-09-09 21:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I got pregnant right after my 15th birthday and haven't had any problems a 35 year old mother wouldn't have. It's sad that there are more and more girls having babies at such a young age but you are no one to judge. You're not doing anything besides showing how jealous or envious you are that you are not pregnant (yet) and that is only going to delay the process! Worry about your own decisions and not hers.
I graduated high school with honors and completed my first year of college during my senior year of high school with honors as well. I have had a job since my son was 5 months old with no one supporting him besides myself and his father. Maybe we don't "have any business" having a baby, but you have no business judging anyone but yourself.
2007-09-09 20:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok I am that girl your talking about. I agree 100% with Averys mama. yeah so what I had sex at 13 and got pregnant. I dont think it is something to brag about but I come here for help and everybody thinks it is so cool to just judge me and make me feel bad and like a terrible mother. I do have a beautiful daughter and do a great job with her. Obviously you guys need to grow up and stop criticizing me and other young mothers and start helping. I have a 10 week old with a fever and the last thing I want to deal with is you people criticizing me and making me feel bad. GROW UP!!!!!!
2007-09-09 20:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by נєѕѕι¢α (ανα'ѕ мσмму) 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
isnt that frustrating? here we all are trying our best to conceive and this 14 yr old has a baby? what the hell? im 22 trying for #1, and i know theres women on here in their 30s and 40s trying too. a 14yr old is a CHILD and should not be having sex in the first place!!
2007-09-09 20:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by DanielleNichole 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you are so right. I have a 14year old and a new baby 6mths, my 14 year old is having a quick lesson on what its like to have a baby in the house and she dosent like it one bit. she dosent even have to look after it but is convinced that she will not be having kids for a long time if ever.
2007-09-09 19:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by madiesmum 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, theres some great parents out there who have raised some winners. I spend most of my time dealing with their actions.
2007-09-09 19:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ha, I think you're just jealous that maybe YOU can't have a baby.
How dare you judge others.
I'm sick of all the judgemental women who think just because they didn't get pregnant at a young age, that they're SO right about everything.
You think TEENS need to grow up?
Why don't you just grow up, and learn to stop judging and accept people and their mistakes/flaws.
And yea, that's FU*KING right, I'm a young mother, who does a GREAT job at raising my beautiful daughter.
**And by the way, I know her, and she is a wonderful girl doing a wonderful job and her daughter is beautiful!
2007-09-09 20:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by ανєяу'ѕ мσмму 5 · 1⤊ 6⤋