Is it bad for me to drink every weekend?

Question

I'm starting my third week as a college junior, but this is my first time living in dorms since I transferred to a new school. Before, I lived with my parents.

Now I have freedom to do a lot of things that I couldn't before.

I'm in a suite with 6 other girls. My suitemate's boyfriend doesn't go to school here, but he comes every weekend. He's been bringing alcohol. These are really my first experiences being drunk. We aren't crazy. We all know each other. Only 6 female suitemates, me and my suitemate's BF are here, so it's a pretty relaxed, safe environment. I''m not worried about drugs/sex, and people look out for me and make sure I don't drink too much.

The problem is, this is my 2nd weekend in a row getting drunk. We had SoCo and coke last week, and whiskey/Coke this week.

Next week suitemate's BF says he's bringing beer and malted liquor.

I feel like I should say no, but the problem is, I want to. It's fun... but on the other hand.... I don't want to be an alcoholic.

Note: Not horribly drunk either time, but it only takes 2-3 drinks before I'm gone.

Answer 1

there is a part of you saying not to do this. And of course the other side is saying go for it. What starts out as just a weekend thing can end up as an everyday thing And a terrible addiction. it doesn't sound like you're new friends are good for you. If you have the strength of mind to turn it down next weekend it would be a good test for you. You would also be able to watch what your friends are like when they are drinking and you are not participating. You may find this very enlightening.