Have you ever Died a little on the inside?

Question

My Ex girlfriend that dumped me about a year ago, broke my heart and took everything I had, and had an affair with my bestfriend.

Share your stories.

Answer 1

Yeah.. but not just a little...
I was in love with him for three years and we were planning out marriage in a few months time. Then, he went to his parents to get their approval. I dont know what happened there. I was waiting at this side, with million dreams for a life of 50/60 years with him... After only 3 days, he called me from there and told me he wont marry me. He would marry another woman whom his parents approve. He killed me on the inside that very moment. In less than a month, he was engaged to her. I never spoke to him after that. The following month he married her. The three years life i lived for him, loving him, being sincere and truthful to him though he was distant to me and we met only once in while..... All that sacrifice i made for him, all those lonely evenings and nights i spent holding just him in my heart, all that discipline it took...They all didnt mean anything all of a sudden. I was grieving for about 6months. The first two months my thoughts were sucidal but i got over with it. Now.... after nine months and having severed all ties with that betrayer.... Im only glad that i didnt marry him. I am rather ashamed that i loved a backboneless, heartless person.
I have started to move on with my life.. Life has to go on. We cant cry for one who cant cry for us, can we? I understand how hurt u should have been.. But this is it brothaAli.. Just think that, u only lost a woman who didnt love u, but she lost a man who really loved her... She is the loser.. Thats how i think..
Wish u a good life.
Cheers!

Answer 2

My sister, six years older then I, was my best friend. We went every where together, met for lunch during our lunch hours and even had gotten our own apartment together. On August 29, 1977 she was in an auto accident and suffer head injuries. She was in a coma and died September 11, 1977, (my mothers 44th birthday).
Needless to say, a huge part of me died on that day. Then 9/11 took place and I died a little more inside. That was a day I would never forget anyway, but now it's even more heart wrenching.

Answer 3

The day I found out my mom had terminal cancer I died a little bit inside, and died a little more everyday we dealt with it. It was hard. Then when my grandma died with cancer and she suffered so much the morphine did not help and it actually changed her facial expressions. If I'd gone to the funeral and not known who it was I would not have recognized her. I remember them both so clearly like it was yesterday, and it has been eleven years ago. Then when my son (only child) was killed in a car accident you could of buried me with him. But I was just getting over my dad passing away eight months earlier, and taking my husband to chemo for his terminal cancer. I died by bits and pieces so much I've been numb, and pinch myself some days to see if I'm still here since I'm pretty much alone family wise these days. When I hurt I tuck it away and grow cold inside. I know the feelings of major loss.........not an easy road to hoe.

Answer 4

Oh, I don't really want to tell my tale of woe, just know that we all have died a little on the inside from time to time in our lives- some more than others. I guess heartbreak is a part of life. I hope you are doing better from yours.

Answer 5

I die a little on the inside everytime I remember something embarrasing I said or did in the past. There's not much left of me to kill.

Answer 6

Me and my ex were together for almost thirteen years we have two kids together and every weekend when they have to go home to her and I cant go it kills me even more. They both tell me they want to live with me but she wont let them, it is hard to get over something like this but my kids keep me getting up every morning. She tells me she feels I took my kids for granted for doing to them what she does to them even more than I have ever did.