I love my husband... but he's controlling. And it's driven me to sneak smoking... Anyone else ever encounter this?! Although I know I can't blame him for my smoking... and I know I need to quit... Just wondering if anyone else sneaks smoking... And if your spouse found out would it be a "deal breaker" in your marriage???
2007-09-09 09:35:21 · 10 answers · asked by writeright 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're biggest problem isn't that you "sneak smoke"......it's that your husband is controlling.
I would go to counseling....with or without him.
Get him to stop controlling you & you'll stop "sneak smoking".
2007-09-09 10:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody should dictate to another person how to live even when it's dangerous. Your a grown woman and know the risks, you do have the right to smoke. Also you should not smoke around anyone who has any objections.
2007-09-09 10:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be crude...BUT if he DOES NOT smoke, do you not think he can smell it on you? Perfumes, and stuff only cover it for a little bit. .
I quit about a year ago, and restarted, and boy was my old man, who smokes as well, was he PO'd. But it was not deal breaker, just a let down to him I guess, because I quit for so long. (6 months quit, then we visited HIS MOTHER..LOL and I started again)
2007-09-09 09:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by THEMrsMinLa&Momof2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is FUNNY. If you think you can smoke tobacco and it not be known, you are just fooling yourself. As a smoker for more than 24 years, having quit for 5 yrs., I now know how bad I must have smelled to ppl who don't smoke. If you smoke ..... you stink, period!
2007-09-09 11:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by nottwoshort 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right, you have to quit. It shouldn't be a deal breaker but it is an awful habit. Stop before you get addicted.
2007-09-09 09:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the only thing your sneaking,Go for it take your time..Theres worst habits to be sneaking around 4
2007-09-09 09:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by houwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did before i got preg..not a deal breaker but he would be upset and I would not blame him!!! He would tan my phanny
2007-09-09 10:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...it would be for mine. i haven't smoked in over 4yrs, however i still crave one every once and awhile. if my hubby caught me sneaking any smokes, he would be so pissed
2007-09-09 10:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean BONE smoking?
2007-09-09 10:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if getting caught smoking, kills a marrage, then there wasnt much of a marrage to begin with
2007-09-09 09:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋