i got pregnant when i was 14 with my 1st child i had him when i was 15 i got pregnant with my 2nd child when i was 15 but i lost it now this is my 3rd time getting pregnant and all of these pregnancy r by the same preson he is good he help me with my son alot more than most men would his mother helps out alot 2 he is just a lil bit older that me i just want 2 no what other people have 2 say bout this
2007-09-09 09:00:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Close your legs or get on the pill, and use protection.
2007-09-09 09:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all do you believe in condoms and you in my opinion shouldn't be having sex at 14 anyway and on top of that your not being responsible enough to protest yourself from pregnancy . You would think that you would have learned your lesson the first time around. The thing I say you should do is get on some kind of birth control after you have this baby . Also did you finish school because your spelling is a little off. And how much older is your baby daddy.
2007-09-09 09:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by love child 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 06:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CLOSE YOUR D@#* LEGS!!! You can't possibly have an education because the grammar displayed in your question is embarrassing. Therefore you will not be able to set a good example for your children. If the type of man you aspire to be with has his mama helping to raise his babies, is he really the role model you want for your children? It has been scientifically proven that your body is not physically mature enough to even handle being pregnant at such a young age, much less three times in two years. Just because you have a period doesn't mean it's okay to be reproducing! There are so many different forms of birth control and so many agencies that can help you prevent any more unplanned pregnancies. PLEASE, quit being a drain on your families and society by trying to play grown up. I know you love your children, but please use common sense.
2007-09-09 10:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by klance05 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At your age you should not have your legs opened yet. Your still a baby raising babies...if you are doing the raising, hard to do if your in school and have a job. But whats done is done, maybe get on birth control and use condoms would help you not have this happen to you. You are too young to be a mom of 2..could of been 3 babies. Hopefully you will be able to provide them with a good life.
2007-09-09 09:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by bpfashion123 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if by ' a little older" you mean he's over 18, well get real and grow up.
Shut your legs when you are around him.
If he loved you , he would be a man and not burden a minor with his child.
He helps out more than most men?
Sounds like a winner - he gets you pregnant 3 times, doesn't use condoms and helps out once in a while?
Wow what a gem you got there.
you are now a child with a child and have to start acting like an adult with two kids to care for.
No more sex for him until he gets a job and wraps his rascal.
Your kids will have no future if you don't grow up.
2007-09-09 09:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by Smug Monkey 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I just want to know why you haven't learned from you mistake? Having a child this young is very foolish, even if you don't think so. You probably think that because you "love" him and he supports you its ok but honestly its not. You are a teenager and you should be enjoying your life as a teen, meeting new people, partying, and having fun! Not changing diapers, breast feeding, and staying up all night with a crying baby!
I hope you take my words into consideration because though you may think I am some old lady I am actually a 14 year old girl! I just know a lot about these things from personal experience with myself and friends. I hope you make wiser decisions from hear on out and good luck with the kids!
2007-09-09 09:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by allie 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
How can you throw your childhood away like that?
I would be absolutely horrified if my daughter came home at 14 and said she was pregnant, the had 2 subsequent pregnancies.
Did you not think about using a condom? Did he not, if he is older he should have been the more responsible!!
I hope your kids don't make the same mistakes as you, sorry to sound harsh, but someone has to say it!! Teach your kids about protection for your sake as well as theirs. Please!
2007-09-09 09:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by yumyum2chestnut 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should be on some type of birth control-you can get it at no cost-are you on a government paid program? if you aren't- get on one now.You need health care. You were way too young to get pregnant but it is too late to correct it now.It takes a lot away from your life to be tied down- are you going to school or have you dropped out? My advice is to continue your education and BIRTH CONTROL!!! I speak from experience- I was in the same shoes you are in..I hope you will follow my advice-God bless you.
2007-09-09 09:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by ga_grandma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is good that the dad is standing by you and you have a happy family but start using protection-you are only 16 you need to have a life yourself and live a little.
2007-09-09 09:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Peanut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your in a really difficult situation. Im glad your with your babies daddy but after this baby you should consider using an IUD for birthcontrol untill your older. Its so difficult to raise babies when your just a teen. I hope this all works out for you.
2007-09-09 09:08:12 · answer #11 · answered by lovelylady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋