2007-09-09 08:49:39 · 26 answers · asked by exwife! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should continually work on your marriage to keep it going. Marriage is a lifetime commitment so you must think of ways to spice it up all the time. This way, there will be no room to feel tired about the relationship - only room for more love and excitement.
2007-09-14 04:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by DR. MCVDQ 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When you are together for a long time with your partner, there are good and bad sides to the relationship. Even if you thought you were perfect for each other, people change.
What you should to do right now is try to show your partner/husband that you can live without him and you are quite the hot chick with your own vision of the world. Men have to know that women are not losers or slaves in marriage only because we love them more doesn't mean they can do everything to us and put us down.
2007-09-17 12:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine Shamote 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage takes alot of work to make it last and keep it fresh. Make sure you are taking care of yourself healthwise. Plan to have time for a date a week or every two weeks to focus on the two of you. Get some hobbies that you enjoy so you are developing yourself. Set up short-term and long-term goals for yourselves for finances, vacations, and children, if you don't have any. Life is meant to be enjoyed. Do your part in making every day count for yourself and for your marriage. Your thinking he's tired of you may actually be you being tired of your routine and needingt to change it. Be postive and and thankful for all that you have and use your talents to better yourself.
2007-09-17 15:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, ignore the comments re: spelling - obviously, all were able to understand your issue! 2nd of all, one individual was dead on - if you are asking this question, you know what's up. look inside yourself - is this relationship worth saving? what are you getting out of it besides anxiety about it? do you have children? does the man ever make you feel good? and, what about YOUR feelings - are you tired of him too? i know several people said "spice it up", but if you don't feel that way any longer, how can you - or for that matter, he? my advise is too take a really hard look within - you might be surprised at the answers waiting to come out!
2007-09-17 13:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Andra J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can tell if he is tired of you or tired of being married, you both have made it pass the 5yr drop out of love area. Open up your eyes, can you see this going on? If you can then make it work, start the firer,and let the games begin,have a wonderful life.
2007-09-16 06:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Hopeful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him? Communication is the key to any relationship, and when the lines of communication go down, so does the relationship. Don't let this happen to you!!! Work on making each other happy. Good Luck Honey.
2007-09-17 15:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sasami Masaki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage does get tiring because it is hard work. You HAVE to work at it to keep it going. 10 yrs. is a fairly long time these days to be married. I myself have been married 10 yrs. You go through your ups and downs. You hang in there. Marriage is for life!
2007-09-17 12:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by deepthinker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cannot change people. If it is over it is over. Move on with your life, next chapter. Crying over spilt milk is not the answer. Maybe something better out there is waiting for you. Learn from your mistakes and dont make the same mistake again.
2007-09-17 14:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by spiro goken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. It's called COMMUNICATING and it's easy. Just ask him straight out. He can't read your mind and you can't read his. If you feel you are boring him, maybe you are. So try to reinvent yourself a little, pay him more attention, listen to him more, go out with him more, buy him gifts the way you did when you met, leave love letters lying around - your imagination if you use it, can run riot.
2007-09-17 15:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talked to me like that, I'd be tired of you! Leave out the numbers and learn how to spell real words!!
2007-09-15 13:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋