I really think im bi but then i also really think im not im 13 gonna turn 14 soon my friend told me she was and then i told her i was but the thing is im not really sure i am i know this sounds REALLY confusing to u ppl reading it thts probablly cause its confusing 2 me too ok so basically what im asking is what should i do should i go with it or try to convince my self im not bi???
2007-09-09 08:01:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
thanks for the answers every1 im just not gonna worry about it and wat happens happens
2007-09-09 11:01:28 · update #1
relax, most people your age go through all this confusion, your at the age when you are finding out who you are and finding your sexuality. its totally normal to not really know yet.
if you are attracted to your friend go for it, whats the harm in that? but don't do anything you don't want to, allot of people your age are bisexual, the number of young girls experimenting with other girls has shot up, but you'll find allot of the girls who say that they are bi now will be straight by the time you go to college, so don't worry about labels now, just go with whoever you are attracted to
good luck xxx
2007-09-09 08:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by coffeetime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are having these feelings, it may be to do with age. You are very young and may be bi curious. If you have a strong feeling you are bi, then don't let yourself worry, you would suprised how many people around you are probably feelnig the same. If you are completely sure, then try it with your friend and see the outcome. You might even enjoy it and accept that you might be bi.
2007-09-09 15:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER EVER try to convince urself your not bi if your not! live with it. embrace it. you will feel 10 KAJILLION times worse if you try to get rid of it.. (this is from personal experience) you can experiment for now. but hold off sex. your young. that can wait. just go with it for now and if its not ur thing, break it off. its okay sweetie... its normal at this age.
2007-09-09 15:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by BooYa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check it out--you're 13!! You are going through major hormonal changes right now that it may be confusing...but I think you should hold off, and when you are positive of your preference then act on it... until then, just go with the flow...let yourself develop.
2007-09-09 15:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by jakkibluu 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why do anything? This isn't something that is a big decision in your life. Nobody is going to grade you on what you label yourself. You don't have to convince yourself of anything.
This is not something that, if you try it, you'll be slotted into a category and shipped out. If you try it and like it, fine. If you don't like it, fine. If you don't try it, also fine.
Do what's comfortable to you.
2007-09-09 15:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by nondescript 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Don't worry about labels. That's what you should do. Just be with whoever makes you happy, do whatever makes you happy. It's your life.
2007-09-09 15:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
it's not right for a women to go out with another women
2007-09-09 15:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by bookwyrm64744 2 · 1⤊ 13⤋