Science has learned a good deal in recent years about the habits and requirements of introverts. It has even learned, by means of brain scans, that introverts process information differently from other people (I am not making this up). If you are behind the curve on this important matter, be reassured that you are not alone. Introverts may be common, but they are also among the most misunderstood and aggrieved groups in America, possibly the world.
2007-09-09 07:56:54
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answered by Hot Coco Puff 7
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People are born with a leaning towards introversion or extroversion. Criticism and put-downs can make a difference in how introverted someone is, but an extrovert cannot become an introvert because of criticism and put-downs. Nature is a strong force.
2007-09-13 03:28:14
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answered by Susas 6
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"Does it", or "Can it"?
The difference is critical. Yes, it definitely can. No, it doesn't always. It depends on many factors, including:
The person being criticised and put down - their basic personality, how much they pay attention to those kinds of things, etc.
The person doing the criticising - is it a parent, a spouse or lover, a sibling, an acquaintance?
The nature of the criticism - how forcefully is it delivered, and over what length of time?
For most people, if we're told forcefully enough, by someone credible enough, over a long enough period of time, that we're no good, that we're less than others, we come to believe it. And once a person's self-esteem is eroded, it can be difficult to make new relationships and interact positively with other people.
2007-09-09 08:01:47
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answered by John S 2
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Not really. Extreme abuse can cause a defense mechanism to make someone shut down, but not if its just criticism and put-downs.
Personality differences can be pre disposed to certain reactions. For example, you could have two different personalities from the same parents.
One child growing up chose to earn the belief that they are not good enough and the other didn't. One is more susceptible to self esteem issues while the other is not.
The one susceptible to self esteem issues is a loud gregarious extrovert. For example, there are lots of performers and comedians that suffer from depression and they are not introverted.
In contrast, the one with high self esteem and a great recovery from criticism and put-downs is introverted and yet... Accomplishes his/her goals in life.
2007-09-09 07:53:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes. It could also spark memories in a past life. These could cause angry outbursts sometimes. Being an introvert isn't always bad, though. Introverts may think more thoroughly about life and their actions and are also philosophical.
2007-09-09 07:51:41
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answered by guineapig48 2
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Absolutely!
2007-09-09 07:51:33
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answered by Anonymous
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well in my case they made me into a strong willed person, that knows my own mind, and do you know what i discovered, that it was the person that was criticizing me and putting me down that had the problems,they had low self esteem
2007-09-09 07:52:26
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answered by champagne 5
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It could, especially if it is done at an early age and by someone you trust (Like a Parent).
2007-09-09 07:51:23
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answered by GGLC 2
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i think it makes them shy, as opposed to introverted.
i know introverted who criticize and put others down and dont get affected when others do it to them
or were u thinking "shy"??
2007-09-09 07:59:37
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answered by Anonymous
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It doesn't help that 's for sure.
There 's a wonderful poem called children live what they learn. You can probably yahoo search and find it , it is very wise and very true.
2007-09-09 07:52:50
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answered by Anonymous
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