There's this really cute girl I know, I've known her since sixth grade, and she's a year up. She really turned into the girl I don't want her to be, and it's horrible to watch. She gets high, smokes, drinks, and dates a different boy a month and usually gives them head. She was telling me that she smoked 20 cigs in like 2 hours, thinking it's cool. She gets high during school hours. I told her not to and she said it's just stress reliving, so how do I make her stop?
2007-09-09 06:20:19 · 5 answers · asked by ««{¿Âúzï Ë!¡!™?}»» 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok...first she is crazy??who would think smoking is so cool?tell her some effects of something like you are going to be thin as a bamboo and ugly..and when i say ugly really ugly!!maybe no one will date you every month anymore....so it is her decision if she wants to continue or stop..and you just encourage her...that is it..if she ignores you..leave her alone and see what would happen...
2007-09-09 06:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her stop.If u care that much u could tell your parents so they can talk to hers.If she is stopped soon there might still be hope for her.The longer they use the harder for them to quit. If u keep on her she will just get mad and maybe stop hanging with u. Her parents really need to be inform of her problem.Good luck
2007-09-09 13:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" her do anything, but you're right to be concerned about "some" of those behaviors. Consider staging an intervention of some sort, a gathering of people she cares about (and who likewise care about her) who will confront her as a group to discuss her apparent substance abuse issues and attempt to persuade her to deal with these problems. These tactics are often effective because substance abuse tends to thrive in secrecy, but begins to dissolve in the light of day. Good luck in your efforts.
2007-09-09 13:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her with her deamons. The evils of doing drugs, smoking, drinking.
I did this for a close friend of mine once. We went walking through the cemetery and I showed her graves of teenagers who had died because of their reckless behavior.
She isn't totally off her vices yet but she's getting there.
2007-09-09 13:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jinjer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do absolutely nothing. It's her choice and she chose being high then education. You can't change her only she can change herself.
2007-09-09 13:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋