im scared im gonna be 20 on the 20th of november, i havnt found my life partner yet,
whatshould i do
what will i do
i have to start getting botox injections
2007-09-09 06:16:39 · 18 answers · asked by Bumumble 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im a gonna, oh no, i m gonna hit rock bottom
2007-09-09 06:21:47 · update #1
Hey, you are just entering the prime of your life! This is where the fun, adventure, relationships and maturity begin and really blossom. You were just a teenager.But now you are becoming a matured adult with a wealth of experience and goals to achieve. Get your priorities straight. Write out all you want to achieve and put a time frame or date when you hope to achieve all these. Place it somewhere you can always see it. Then think of how best you can achieve this with the resources available to you. Ask others who have achieved the same dreams and they will assist you as well. You aren't going downhill from here except you think so! It is all in your mindset and beliefs. Unleash the potentials within you. Your tomorrow is bright!
2007-09-10 00:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Smokin Gun! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar reaction! Wouldn't let people call me 20, I was 19 +1 for a long time!! Then guess what? I hit 30 and I can honestly say the last 3 years have been way more fun than my 20's ever were!
On the subject of a life partner, I was engaged at 19, have since split with him, got engaged again, split up, moved in with someone else and split again. Got married at 31, like I said, 30's are sooo much more interesting!
2007-09-09 07:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by raceylaidee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be ridiculous.
Your life has only just begun.
Here is how my life has panned out - 21 graduate, 23 get married, 26 get divorced, 27 have the best year ever of my life having loads of fun, 28 meet my life partner, 29 move in with life partner, 30 have another year of making loads of new friends and going to festivals, 31 buy dream property in spain with partner, 34 get married, 35 still enjoying life.
See - the best is yet to come. I think I look better now than i did when I was 20, I have someone special to share my life with and I have the money to really enjoy it. My 30s have been the best so far!
2007-09-09 06:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Leapling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 40 in a couple of weeks and I would say I have improved with age, not declined. I am better looking then I was when I was 20, I am more confident, I am wiser and I am secure and content. I work in a male dominated environment and a lot of the women who work there are a lot younger then me. They seem to spend every working moment flirting and trying to outdo each other. They are bitchy, they backstab and they come across as being desperate, sound like you???
As you get older, life definately gets better, embrace it. Find a web site that shows you movie stars at the age of 20 upwards and you will see how they have improved. One perfect example is Nicole Kidman. She was pretty when she first hit the big screen and now she is absolutely stunning!!!
2007-09-09 06:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mary S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous it nothing but a thing. Many schools have such a program in the ITF some schools allow Blue belts to start teaching solo (Not Many but non the less) the whole purpose is for you to become proficient as an instructor so that when you are ready you can open your own school and for you to develop your leadership skills to a higher level. In the IBDA the National Organization for Ninpo students are allowed to start training for instructors at the 5th Kyu so that they may earn the Shidoshi-Ho (junior Licensed instructor) at which time they can start teaching solo with their own group, club or family members. I hope this helps. Good Luck and just have fun while doing it.
2016-04-03 22:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, eventually your looks and your life energy will start to decline, but you're a long way from having even the most remote need to worry about these things yet. You may never need Botox injections (which is a horrible practice born out of lethal vanity) but you will need an infusion of reality about what's truly important and substantive in life, but don't worry about that either....life will make sure you get it when it's time. If you spend your youth being fearful of the future, you will wind up spending your middle ages filled with regret (regret over all the things you missed enjoying while you were otherwise occupied with worry). Spend your life "living" and don't worry about decline or death....trust me, death takes care of itself.
2007-09-09 06:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay.
1. You don't need to find your life partner at 20. The average marriage age is 30.
2. Forget the life partner and worry about YOUR life.
3. You can't worry about something you cannot change. It's pointless.
4. If movie stars hire the best plastic surgeons and still LOOK like they had plastic surgery, there is no hope for those of us who can't afford them. I'd rather have wringles.
Happy early birthday & I hope this helps!
2007-09-09 06:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Kristen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bumumble,
Happy Birthday in November it will be your GOLDEN BIRTHDAY you will be 20 on the 20th!!! its a very special birthday, and also just so u know, being just a little older than u, still in my 20's, It only gets better!!! trust me!!!
start taking good care of your skin, now, so you don't have to get botox injections!!
2007-09-11 05:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bullmastiff_Boxer_lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 20!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yes of course as you age your looks are going to change, you will develop wrinkles etc, you cant stop the coming of the tide completely. At 20 everything is still very much in check and the next few years are more than likely when you are going to look your best. Enjoy them when they are here, trust me, you'll look back in 10 years time and realise how good you look right now.
2007-09-09 06:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by tipsy pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna tell you how old i am but to worry about your looks now gives me hope. The last thing you should do is worry and votox is not for you or anybody else come to that. Enjoy your life as it's far to short to worry.
2007-09-09 06:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋