In behalf of my closest friend which is right beside me right now.. since she is not satisfy with the previous answers we've receive about her problem.
She is married yet she think she made the biggest mistake ever. Fooling herself to be with the man who become her husband. Fooling herself for she can't fight her feelings for the other guy whom she's deeply inlove with.
Now.. her husband outstands from amongst since he has all the following traits what a woman want. But there is no chemistry in between them. What is she doing is doing things in return for her husband for she has nothing to give to him in exchange for everything he did to her life to make it more convenient.
She want to bring her love back to her husband. However, no matter how she try... there is something that is hard to explain and she can't figure it out.
Right now..she is just stating her problem with me about her case. How she wished that she could be able to bring back time for her to make things right,
2007-09-09 05:51:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love is a choice.
2007-09-09 05:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not satisfied with the answers because she is unwilling to leave this other man and put all her energies into building a relationship with her husband.
If she wants out of the marriage, then she needs to do it and quit playing games. Did she think she made a mistake by marrying her husband before or after this guy came into her life?
2007-09-09 05:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she learns a valuable lesson from this situation. What I think is that in life we can't make decision based on imagination. As an individual I am my worst enemy. In my mind I think I know what life is for me which in reality this is nonsense. Life is what I make it to be, not what I think it should be. We brain f#@% ourself of all the blessing our higher power put in front of us. When we turn our back on our blessing and we make impulsive decision based on our thinking there is nothing good that will come of it. She may get involve with someone else who will think of her the same way she thinks of her husband if not worst.
The best thing to do is talk to your husband. Tell him you feel empty. Ask him what can he do to make you feel full. Tell him that you like to be challenged. Ask him only if he is mature enough to handle the conversation. Otherwise run, lol.
2007-09-09 06:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by John 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is cheating her husband out of the life he deserves, she married for other reasons but love, if she does not love the husband she needs to seek a divorce and seek the life she needs.
2007-09-09 06:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋