I'm so sick of people on here saying looks dont matter, im not say the person has to be gorgeous, but you have to be physically attracted to them i mean if there total ***** (but was gorgeous) then no i wouldn't date her but if there was a girl u was super nice but i was not a attracted to her at all i wouldn't date here either, so when will u people (well most of you) stop lying
2007-09-09 05:46:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Looks matter to a certain extent. There is no way I would date a 300 lb man with pimples. On the other hand I would not date a guy who looks like a model but is a complete jerk. Looks and personality go hand in hand. They don't have to be the most gorgeous person on the planet but they need to look decent and have a personality.
2007-09-09 06:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The biggest problem with people in general (especially in this politically correct society) is they often substitute the truth with bull, to avoid hurting feelings.
Looks/attractiveness are the single largest contributing factor between human pairbonding and sexual relations. It is our nature, and the nature of (believe it or not) many animals.
As a guy who runs his life like a business, my advice to fellow brothers:
Never listen to a womans advice, watch what they do instead. Eg, Mary says she likes "bill", but secretly likes "Mark" - but ends up sleeping with Marks sister Betty.
Women always put themselves at the winning end of any advice they give. (Ignore most of what your mother says.)
They are incapable of avoiding this by nature. (a long discussion.)
Finally - ALWAYS date a girl who is 9/10's as good looking as you. The fact you are better looking than her will offset her sexual advantage over you (the stupid male penis), and you'll end up both qualifying new GF material, and dating girls based on the values they share with you, instead of boobs that'll sag with stretchmarks and looks that'll fade in 15 years.
For every 25 girls I date, only 1 ended up as a girlfriend. - Keep looking and hold your head up. Western girls today have major hate ons towards men. (another long long story brother.)
Am married to a well raised farm girl who support me in every way for 8 years. I'm not particularly sexually attracted to her, and believe me, when you hit near 40 as I am, it don't matter worth a ****.
Would you rather be married to a self entitled high maintenance cow always bringing you down with her "needs" or a best friend who supports everything you do.
Sex ain't worth it.
2007-09-09 06:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually BEHAVIOR matters most to people...like you said if some beautiful girl acting like a total Bi**ch then NO guy would want to be with her....
But we do look for LOOKS first but that changes quickly after you get to know the person...
2007-09-09 09:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Looks absolutely matter for an initial attraction. But what is attractive to one person may not be to another. After that initial attraction wears off though, there better be something there to take its place.
2007-09-09 05:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by littletricky 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-04 06:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by earles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks do matter okay. However, if a person is a complete psycho, a known cheater, has no aim in life then there is nothing attractive about that.
2007-09-09 05:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When people say looks don't matter, they mean that looks SHOULDN'T matter.
We'd all be idiots if we thought that looks don't actually make a difference.
2007-09-09 05:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Surf Forever 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are very much right. people need to stop lying.
2007-09-09 06:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
2007-09-09 05:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by gulfbreeze8 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋