...at vacation resort... he is 19 years older (I am 27 & divorced) and has 4 children some of which almost my age and lost his wife a year ago after 20 years of a very happy marriage... he lives and has his own business in Canada and I am from center of Europe where my family lives and I have a great job... which makes everything so difficult of course... he is falling in love it seems too... I've been over to Canada and he is coming to Europe for the 1st time on my birthday...and it will be 6 months since we met for the 1st time.
My heart says "let's go" and my mind tells me "stop"... would you let yourself go further... falling in love without thinking what the future would be like because of all this "practical" issues and huge differencies... or would you end up the relationship even knowing that this is the love of your life? but what if he will never be able to love you as you love him, have children because he had it all already in his life...how do you know what is right ???
2007-09-09 05:35:57 · 2 answers · asked by Mara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dont try to plan to far ahead. Since he is coming to visit on your Birthday, wait and see how things go. Take one step at a time. I realize a 19 year old age gap is big, but I know several people that have successful relationships with an age gap like that.
Do what feels right. Follow your heart and listen to your head.
Good Luck, faith
2007-09-09 09:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying once a cheater always a cheater. I would leave him alone, because WAKE UP, he is cheating on his wife with you and he will do the same for you. Be patient and find the right guy that will treat you right and not cheat on you. You are just asking for headaches and heartaches if you continue to see or marry him. Move On!
2016-05-20 05:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋