She is God fearing, honest, hardworking and truthful. But because of her first marriage,she lost all hopes against guys.She wants to lead a lonely life till her lifetime by doing Medical service by studying Medical releated MS degree at U.S.incontinuation of her studies in india. We as her parents will look after her till our life time.Then who will take care of her in our absence? The heart to heart consolations, love , and communications won't come thereafter. To overcome from this situation How to persuade her for her Second marriage? At India entering into the 2nd marriage becomes rarest among rare in our Hindu customs for a virgin Girl. But Nowadays in the software field the no of divorce are in increasing trend. Further, How to find a new guy to her tastes and if it is so it is a difficult task for me to find out the same person in the indian orgin. I am spending sleepless nights in view of my daughter's prsent life. How to overcome from all difficulties to set up happy life ?
2007-09-09 05:32:36 · 10 answers · asked by BA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-09-09 05:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by AYOOZe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sleepless nights. If she is meant to be with someone she will and it dosen't matter from were/culture. If she wants to lead a lonely life then let her because even though you love her..she is a grown women and knows what she needs and wants.
In some circumstances you cannot follow rules. We respectively are from different cultures but I knew what I wanted in a person by the time I was 22. Let her decide.
2007-09-09 05:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure you'll be able to change your daughter's mind about a second marriage - she sounds intelligent and independant. You didn't mention how long she's been separated from her first husband, but she may change her mind on her own after some time.
Being there for her now and in whatever she decides to do in the future is the best thing you can do and she will always appreciate it!
2007-09-09 05:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long it has been since your daughter's divorce, but she probably just needs some time to get over it and be ready for a new relationship... just step back and give her a few years and then you can bring it up again or she might tell you herself that she wants to remarry. It is totally understandable that you are concerned about your daughters future, but nowadays it is perfectly possible to be happy without marriage.. she has a good job and frinds etc
2007-09-09 09:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by growing inside 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to fix her up with someone else for the second time around which is probably why she got divorced in the first place. She will be ready when she is ready not when you want her to be ready. Let her heal from her past experince and it's not right to force her to get married again just because of your Indian customs.
2007-09-09 10:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, they do continue to worry us even when they are grown, don't they? There is one thing you can rest easy about....if your daughter receives a Masters degree in a health related field, no one is going to have to look after her financially after you are gone. I am sure she will be bereft and will miss your love, concern, and advice, but you have raised her properly and she will endure. You think her life is lonely, but maybe she doesn't see it that way. Maybe she is content, now, with her life as it is and her privacy and emotional freedom. Give her time to heal...a divorce is a painful thing, even if it is what she needed to do. Don't push her to remarry. Eventually she may want to, herself, without your urging. Yes, divorce is becoming so commonplace in all cultures. It is a shame. And, yes, I know it is very hard for you, knowing your wishes are for a compatible man of Indian origin and of your religion. But, setting up a happy life for your daughter may not be a possibility for you, anymore. It may be up to her. Trust her.
2007-09-09 05:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God looks after His people. You don't need to worry about her future after you are gone. All she needs to do is put her future in God's hands and He will take care of the rest. Do NOT fear, trust the Lord, have faith in Him and he WILL take care of your daughter.
"For I know the plans I have for you" declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future". Jeremiah 29:11
2007-09-09 05:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may need to let her be - meeting someone comes at the least expected moment - you will be surprised what happens - the best you can do for her is just pray for her - most of the time we say one thing, but our heart does another. good luck
2007-09-09 05:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by lynnette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She seems to be a good girl/lady, but it is too difficult to pass life long time alone. Please pray, her husband should come back
2007-09-09 05:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use first answer good luck.
2007-09-09 05:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋