Before people start ranting and raving about how gays cannot change, read this
http://www.evergreeninternational.org/Male_ssa.htm#description
Truth be known, the gay life is lonely. Gay relationships cannot and will not endure after this life.
Source is
www.evergreeninternational.org
2007-09-09 05:29:08 · 22 answers · asked by Suki Duki 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes, they can change. Sexual behavior is a choice, or at best a learned behavior. Sexual attraction is also conditioned, even if some people might be attacted to the opposite sex, it can still be controlled. We all have many instincts, but they often conflict and we must choose between our instincts and desires and not just give one, in this case the sexual, free reign over our lives. Most men engaged in homosexual behavior are men that just can't get enough sex period, and they end up crossing over...
2007-09-09 05:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by eliasulmonte 3 · 2⤊ 7⤋
Ok, I'm probably one of the few people that read part of the artical. I'm probably the only one that could tell it was mormon wrote before I read the sources and saw the main page.
I find it interesting that the author of this artical believes that homosexuals are at a higher rate in prison.
"As many as 20–25% had prison experience and 5% may have been male prostitutes. Since one would expect that this group would have higher than average homosexual experiences, the findings of Kinsey’s studies may not be representative of the population as a whole."
I graduated in a class of 178. Their were 8 people in my class openingly and exclussively homosexual. I live in the bible belt in an area that hates gays too. Those 8 people already make up 5% of the population. I'm sure that their is another 8 that are GLBT that closeted. I would be one of the 2nd group of 8 people. Most of the people I meet that are openningly gay came out in college. In my area, atleast, the 10% is met or possibly exceeded.
Homosexuality is not a choice, if it was... I choose to be heterosexual. I want childern and a marriage. I just can't have them with my future partner. Having childern and a marriage won't make me happy. I would still be depressed inside.
2007-09-09 05:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a theory that everyone is born bisexual, with the potential to follow any of the three paths in life.
Some people will be one sexuality their entire life, others will change at some point. Those who change are actually bisexual, but just felt more gay or straight during the first phase in their life.
I've heard that some people in their 60's / 70's have been hetro all their life, but after the death of their spouse they have started to develop homosexual attractions.
Personally, I believe that everyone has the right to be who they are and what they are, regardless of what others may think.
Some gay couples have had enduring, faithful relationships for far longer than their straight friends / peers.
I would describe myself as Bi. At the moment, I am leaning more to the hetero side, but I am also attracted to women.
As far as I'm concerned, it's a case of the right person coming along at the right time, whether they be male or female.
2007-09-09 05:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Silver Rose * Wolf 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
in the first part of the paper if you take the term homosexual and replace it with heterosexual the paper is still good advice anything taken to extremes is bad but I know many family members, friends and coworkers who are gay and they are good upstanding people who are not aberrations of evolution as I have heard some people claim and by the way with all the posts on YA about this do you think you are actually going to change anyone's opinion on this subject or any other conserning religion or faith
2007-09-09 05:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who would want to change what they are, it has nothing to do with 'thinking', I am straight, it is ridiculous to say I can become gay by re-orienting my thinking, no one says " I think I'll be this for a change" I do not think a gay is necessarily lonely, Many straight men are lonely too.
2007-09-09 05:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by joe 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As a homosexual I have changed. I have grown as a person when I fully accepted every fiber of who I am.
I also had more of a catepillar to butterfly change also when I realized a month ago that I love being a Top. I never felt I would like it, but now....now I cannot get enough.
2007-09-09 05:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh really? How do you know gay relationships cannot and will not endure after this life? Did God tell you last night? Stop being foolish, we all know it is your opinion.
2007-09-09 05:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
i haven't read your brainwashing web site but it has been proven over and over again that you cannot change a person's sexual orientation. people who have gone thorugh the braainwashing still end up eventually going back to their old ways. it is biology and you can't change a person't gender any more than you can increase their iq by 20%
2007-09-09 07:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by Justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, who do you think knows what it's like to be gay more than gay people? It's laughable that you'll come and tell us things about ourselves that we know from personal experience are not true. It think it's you that needs understanding.
2007-09-09 05:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by robert 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was going to come up with something witty and intelligent, but it's just easier to say that you're obviously close-minded and don't know enough real life gay couples who have been together for many many years.
Tis rather sad.
2007-09-09 05:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by The Smile Man 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That was the longest joke I have ever read. HAHA. Why would I want to change.
The whole bit on loving families, etc. THAT can NEVER happen to me right? No I didn't think so.
2007-09-09 06:14:54 · answer #11 · answered by ҡʏʟɛ - ❄ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋