he lives with a girl who uses meth and my two grandchildren are not allowed to see me what should i do
2007-09-09 05:08:58 · 9 answers · asked by VICKY taylor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get YOUR life totally in order, call CPS immediately and make SURE they are aware of the drug use, go to small claims court and file as many claims it takes to total 10,000 dollars, and wait. If CPS does not take the kids away, call the police and talk with a NARC, talk with the kids school counselor, and you may want to talk to a lawyer.
Because these people are involved in drugs, your chances of ever seeing your money again is VERY slim. In fact, I would be very leery of even having anything of value in my house if I were you, as that could disappear too. If the girl who is living with your son is in to meth, your son is too. DO NOT believe anything he says to you again.
2007-09-09 06:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say that you have some serious problems going on with your life. A 26 year old son that does drugs and borrowed 10,000,00 from you and doesn't want anything to do with you and won't let you see the grand kids. Then you have a husband that you find out has yet another wife out there besides you.
IF all this is true, then here is what I think I would do. Did you get anything in writing about the loan to your son? If yes, take him to court and sue him for the money. If you don't have anything in writing, good luck on getting it back. You have just learned a valuable lesson in life. Now as far as the drugs go, well if you can prove that he has drugs in his house, call the Child Welfare Department and let them know about it. You might get lucky enough to get custody of your grand kids. Now as far a the husband goes, take him to court as well. I assume that he married you first, sue him for bigamy. But either way it goes, divorce him.
Now if none of this stuff has happened, about the son and the husband, thank you for wasting my time and all the other nice folks here for trying to help you out.
Whether anything that you said is true or not, I would sure hate to be in your shoes either way.
2007-09-09 15:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously it wasn't the best move to lend him that money when you think that it could possibly have been used to buy drugs.
It doesn't look like he is thinking of returning any of that money you lent him.
Did you put that loan on paper? If you have no proof that it was a loan, then there's no way you can claim anything from him!
As for your rights to see your grand children, you should approach family mediation. That'd be a soft approach and still very effective.
Good luck.
2007-09-09 12:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lend him any more money and chalk it up to a bad decision to lend him that much money. Don't expect to ever get it back. You could call a family lawyer and ask about grandparent rights.
2007-09-09 13:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could afford to lend your son 10 million dollars or 10 thousand dollars. If you could afford to do that, do you really have to ask what to do to get it back-take him to court if he continues to ignore you.
2007-09-09 20:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same as Ree Ree's answer, but it sounds like you've lost 10 grand.
2007-09-09 12:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refigure your monthly budget with 10 grand less this month?
2007-09-09 12:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call child services first, and if you can prove it take him to small claims court.
2007-09-09 12:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ree Ree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry your money fly away , but dont be sad coz your not the only 1, i dont know what u will do
2007-09-09 12:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by MIla M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋