How can my ex wife really believe her affair with a married man of ten kids have any hope of happiness.She had been cheating on me with this clown for a year before she asked for a divorce.I had no clue at all as to what she was doing.Is she nuts ?
2007-09-09 05:03:15 · 10 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not your problem, sit back and laugh.
2007-09-09 05:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by kim t 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is nuts for cheating on a man that sounds like he loved her and hopefully one day she will come to her sinces but, in the meantime it's best for you to start dating some other women to take your mind off of your ex wife. You can do this and God Bless you!
2007-09-09 18:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see where your concerned, because her actions that hurt you, if they don't stop will hurt others, like his kids. Your ex and this man she's having this affair with are being very selfish and thinking ONLY of themselves. And it's gonna bite them in the butt eventually. I can understand you feel bad for his kids, and that's nice that your so considerate of his kids.
If you know his wife, tell him what he's doing and who he's cheating with. I know it will hurt her, but she deserves to know the truth.
2007-09-09 12:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pop that popcorn and sit back, you've got a front row seat to watching a deciever fall flat on her face. Just make sure that door is firmly shut on her a*s when she tries to crawl back to you.
But maybe she loves him, and as we know, love is blind and stupid. But i dont see a married man with 10 kids bailing on his wife and children, its happened, but its not likely.
Continue with your divorce proceedings, get her out of your life and your children (if you have them) in a secure relationship (prefereably with you) so that if Mr.Clown does decide to leave Mrs.Mother-of-10-children, your kids wont be influcened by their bad behavior.
2007-09-09 12:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not nuts, stupid and foolish. Time will take care of it all so be prepared when she contacts you crying the blues over her decision.
2007-09-09 12:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you out of your mind for stressing over her future after what she did to you. It will be a nice piece of Karma for her. Find relief in that, count your blessings and move on!
2007-09-09 12:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by BossLady 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything....so forget it, she is going to do what she wants. Because if she is doing it in her mind it is not wrong.....went through a very hurtful thing to that a I was mistress and I didn't know it...It is sad..life is sometimes sad.
2007-09-09 12:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's your ex, why does it matter if she's nuts or not. sounds like you should be glad she's someone elses problem
2007-09-09 12:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by goodcook 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i'm with the first answer-let her do her own thing and leave her alone.
2007-09-09 12:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by bratt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, my friend.
2007-09-09 12:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by Steve B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋