my girlfriend and i decided to have sex for the first time for both of us...i used a condom but i couldn't even stick it in that far because she said it hurt so bad. she couldn't go on becuz it hurt so bad. does it hurt THAT bad the first time? and how will it get better to where it doesn't hurt? any suggestions?
2007-09-09 05:01:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well the first time always hurts. It will get better in time. You did the correct thing in using a condom! Safe sex is always best! Make sure you use plenty of lubrication; this will help with some of the pain! The first time really does hurt us ladies. So you do know for sure she has never been with anyone. You need to take your time, and work around this problem; it does get better with time! If she has never been with anyone it will take time to stretch out her inside! If your girlfriend is small as in petite, it may take a little longer, but should only take a few times to get things where you’re both comfortable. You did the correct thing in your efforts to make and take the time for both of you to enjoy this with one another. The other thing is always use safe sex practices. No matter what safe sex is always best.
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2007-09-09 05:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intercourse for the first time is painful for some. Girls are all different sizes just as men are. I am sure she was nervous and scared at the same time which may have just made things worse..especially if she was tighteneing up. The best thing is for you to both be sure that she really wants to do it. Maybe some lubrication and lots of foreplay will help. It does get better with time. Just be sure to take your time with her, and go slowly. Be gentle and help her to relax. In due time you 2 will be like a couple of bunnies!
2007-09-09 05:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you don't already know the answer to this question, you're likely not mature enough to be having sex in the first place.
Try a LOT more playing around, before and instead of actual sex. There's a lot you can do that doesn't involve penetration, and surprise, it doesn't hurt at all. Give those things some experimentation instead of focusing on intercourse.
2007-09-09 05:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sex does hurt the first time, because of pressure and ur hymen stretches. But I also can feel good. But sadly the first time sex doesn't last very long... :(
2016-05-20 04:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by laraine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITs cuz its her first time!! It wont hurt as bad if you do it more to loosen it up haha
2007-09-09 05:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It hurts because she's a virgin and has never had a "thing" in there befroe.
Yes it will get better if you do it again.
2007-09-09 05:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good lord you know a stupid *** guy would ask this question,Just how stupid can any guy be ,no wait all guys are stupid ,thank God I am a lesbian and don't have to put up with guys inside me anymore
2007-09-09 09:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by tkbpfe 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Try removing her pantyhose first.
2007-09-09 05:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by Wize Guy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sex hurts for a virgin girl
but, maybe some "foreplay" will help her... if you dont know what that is, dont have sex!
2007-09-09 05:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ya it hurts like a *****
2007-09-09 05:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋