My boyfriend and I broke up almost a month ago. He still talks to me every day, we see each other, other than going to work and to the gym the only person he he hangs out with is me. We have a lot of things that are joined, such as our phone bill, a gym membership, keys to each other's cars, and just the other day I saw my pictures are still in his wallet. And I found out my pictures are still up in his room. He still calls me by my nicknames he gave me, he calls me sunshine, and last night he called me sweetie. He broke up with me, he said he needed "me" time. But he initiates every conversation. He's privately called numbers I have talked to, to see who they were. And he's logged into some of my accounts so I have changed the passwords. I know he's not talking to anyone, and when we went out this past week he paid for my meal. I have a daughter, who is not his, and he still has toys, her car seat, and a stroller in his truck that he hasn't taken out. I'm confused! Any advice?
2007-09-09 04:55:11 · 3 answers · asked by daisy3122 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is the type of guy when he ends a relationship and he is done with it, to completely cut off all contact. He doesn't just stick around.. and he's not slow to move on. He did that with every other ex he has had. He has a twin sister, she has watched him do it. Everything is in his name, he's the one that has to call and get things changed. He asks me to do things. A week after we broke up he still kissed me and told me he loves me. I've even asked other guys about this, and they said all of that would have been changed if they no longer wanted to be with the girl. I know him better than anyone, and I know he wouldn't still be talking to me. I know he would be moved on already, he doesn't go through any slow process of it. When it's done, it's done, that's how he is. That's why I am so confused, because he isn't doing that.
2007-09-09 05:54:50 · update #1
Another thing, he feels the need to explain himself with me. If he doesn't respond back for a while, he has to let me know where he was and what he was doing. I've asked him why and he said he wanted to and he felt I should know. If I'm non-responsive, he wants to know what I am doing, who I am with, or who I am talking to. He gets panicky in a way when I haven't talked back to him. He talks to me every night for at least 3 hours before going to bed. And randomly through out the day he'll send me text messages or emails. He still wants to buy me things, and offers to help me pay for things. He's not that type of person.
2007-09-09 06:00:57 · update #2
He sounds to me unsure. If he wanted a break, I would think he would return all those things you share in common. I would suggest you have a talk with him and find out what he is really thinking. Don't drive yourself crazy trying to guess.Maybe you two could set a time limit of say three months for him to make up his mind whether he is in your life or out. What about you, do you want him and you to move on?
2007-09-09 05:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either one...Either he has a hard time breaking off with you especialy there was a child involved....and he takes his time to realise that that is what he wants...Or...He still loves you and he just have a hard time deciding which way to go.
I know it's hard ...but I suggest to cut contact with him for a while...that way it will give you both time to think about the situation...and if you wana be together again..
Wish you good luck
2007-09-09 16:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by Juliet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is moving on, but sometimes it is slow and hard to move on... start gathering your stuff, or your childs stuff before you lose it...
2007-09-09 12:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋