I love my girlfriend, she is smat and supportive and i think she will be a good mother. But she lives in a different city and we are planning to marry after one and half year because of her job. But last year I met this woman (coworker). She is so cute and attractive. I know it is wrong but I slept with her.. I thought it was just one time thing, but I am attracted and it is hard to resisit the desire. I like the woman as a person, too and I would like to keep the friendship...What is wrong with me? How can I get over this??
2007-09-09 04:41:34 · 9 answers · asked by fatal attraction 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Listen to me very very carefully
DO NOT GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MARRIED DOESN'T MAKE IT BETTER. YOU ARE NOT READY TO GET MARRIED.
It's okay to not get married, not be ready, and to be attracted to other girls but you need to get out of your relationship and cut off the engagement and committment to this other girl. It will be hard but if you do it then it's a huge sign of maturity and you can move on. It sounds like you are still young and want to sow your wild oats. Just give your fiance the truth and move on with your life and allow her to move on with hers.
2007-09-09 04:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
However U justify what U did, but get real! U have to be straight, especially with your girlfriend. Why should you ruin her life by making her believe your this guy who loves "her", but is ******* someone else. I'd be livid, and would probably get violent, depending how long you've been cheating on her. This just makes me so pissed. Don't be so weak and selfish. A woman is more sexual than a man, so why do guys get off on saying "they "NEED", IT. Well woman "need" it too I just think they have higher standards. No sympathy here!
2007-09-09 11:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by zenawarrior0421 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dumped your girlfriend w/you dropped your pants!! Break off the marriage, sounds like doomed to fail(you r a cheater) why ruin some else's life by getting married!!
2007-09-09 11:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call off the engagement and fess up to your girlfriend. You're obviously not ready for a committed relationship.
2007-09-09 11:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready for a commitment. Break it off with your fiance and date the coworker and others for a while. Your fiance deserves someone who will not cheat on her. How would you feel if she did that to you?
2007-09-09 11:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By making up your mind and deciding who you want to be with. You can't have it all ways without some major hurt and confusion. You have feelings, and the women you are interested in have feelings too.
2007-09-09 12:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the girlfriend because you clearly are not ready to commit to her
2007-09-09 11:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what happens to ur mind, u shuld be faithful, in this period, the girl ll know you if you re honest or not, i m engaged to a wonderful guy, he s the one , inspite that he s choosen by my dad , but his choice is great . after few months we ll get married . never cheat her please .
2007-09-09 11:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by white rose. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to end the relationship!!!!
2007-09-09 14:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by midget/pita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋