I don't think anyone actually ever gets "used" to being alone. It just becomes habit, routine. Because when no one is looking, and it becomes quite and calm, when you are alone with your thoughts with nothing to stimulate them...you feel it. Alone. It happens even though you convince yourself it doesn't matter. It happens whether you want it to or not. Sometimes actually being alone with yourself can be quite soothing, but it's those times when you see how happy others are being together that it also hits you. I'm one of the ones that will make it very convincing that I am ok with being alone, but deep down? I long for more.
2007-09-09 04:40:46
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answered by Anonymous
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At times I prefer it. However, I don't think I will ever be used to the fact I am alone. I never thought I would be single at this time in my life. I will tell you this, I would rather be alone than lonely, especially while in a relationship. There's a difference and no worse feeling.
2007-09-09 04:44:15
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answered by feather girl 6
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Well, I've gotten used to being alone...
I've been single for 3 years now so what can I do.
But on the bright side....it is great now having to worry about someone else, can come and go as I please, I'm completely independant, and I dont gotta worry about b-day/x-mas gifts!
So in a way, I can see why some people choose to remain single!
2007-09-09 04:38:40
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answered by SuZe 3
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Yes
2007-09-09 04:32:48
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answered by Squirt 7
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Waaaaaaa! You're gonna make me start crying all over again! My hubby is leaving on a plane at 5:00 today for a week.............and at the same time, my son left friday for a week to Texas. I WILL be all alone after tonight, and I don't like it at all. So, no I haven't!
2007-09-09 04:33:37
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answered by charks love 6
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It depends:
*I'm a single dad with two kids.
*I fight in martial arts tournaments pretty much every month.
**LOTS of training obligations, etc.
*I still get lots of stares from women in the strangest places (i.e., grocery shopping, staff meetings, tournaments, church, etc.), but I just don't have the time (re., the kids, and training, and fighting), or the money to do anything about this.
*Whenever my (ex) wife takes the kids (visitation pretty much every weekend), I feel pangs of loneliness, but I also get to sleep in, tidy up, and catch up on my loose ends (correcting papers).
Again, it kinda' all depends ...
(;=]
2007-09-09 04:56:04
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answered by chuck U 5
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After being a single parent for ten years raising three sons, yes. Not a problem.
2007-09-09 04:32:08
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answered by Anonymous
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yes. i could handle being alone for a long time. im sure alot of people would hate it. i like having company though.
2007-09-09 04:35:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, sadly I have. I can be in a room full of happy smiling people but the loneliness still drags me into myself
2007-09-09 04:31:53
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answered by ? 5
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Yes. It makes everything worth remembering and thinking about. I like being alone.It's quiet and I can do things I like.
2007-09-09 04:39:36
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answered by Lei 3
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