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He does but he also does stuff on his computer and i want to spend more time with him. I love him dearly but sometimes I feel like he rather be on his computer then with me.

2007-09-09 04:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

He does orgami, and runs servers for people, and does alot of stuff on teh computer. its right next to mine and i can see everything he is doing im only on mine because he wont get of his. I watch tv so bored. But i know hes not cheating nobody wants him lol

2007-09-09 04:47:22 · update #1

Im not worried about affair or anything because he's not cheating or nothing like that, he just spends alot of time doing web pages and all sorts of boring stuff "to me" but he likes it. He fixes computers for a living.

2007-09-09 04:48:00 · update #2

I am 26, he is 30. I have 2 kid's from my last marriage and he treats them as his own and has supported them since we met. He is a great daddy to them and does spend time with all of us just not as much as I'd like. I love him dearly. yes our sex life is great

2007-09-09 05:16:06 · update #3

7 answers

Tell him how you feel , Ask him to set time aside to be with you and the family.

2007-09-09 04:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Joan f 3 · 0 0

Not a nuff info. No age. No number mount of kids. But doses ever one treat him with respect?
Have you quit being his girlfriend? How's your sex life? Have things gotten boring a round the house?Their are so many things that could be going on. Step back. Look at things from an outsiders view. Make slow adjustments. Just remember something happen and it will take a long time to fix just do not jump down on him

2007-09-09 11:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by tadm 4 · 0 0

The ex spent way to much time on the porn sights and eBay, one of many reasons why I had to file for a divorce after 30 years. My daughter and my self did not exist in his life except when he wanted something from us.

2007-09-09 11:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by kim t 7 · 0 0

Best get a key logger or web watcher and find out who he talking to and what he is saying on the computer.

On line affairs are going on everywhere right now and breaking up many, many marriages.

2007-09-09 11:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0 1

depending on what he is doing.

all IT people behave about the same...

so unless he see the benefits of getting off-line then he will spend more time with people than computer....

seek help from counsellor, work it out.

2007-09-09 11:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by lost man 3 · 0 0

Computer, TV, Sports, the bar, his friends... are all things that men get addicted to when there is not much to do at home. make it worth his while to get off the computer... suggest a date, games night, movie, dinner... eventually he will start getting used to doing other things... with you!

2007-09-09 11:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by just me 5 · 2 0

try talking to him about this problem see if there is a way that he can leave his work at work and not bring it home so often

2007-09-09 11:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0 0

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