Virgos, does the slow nature of the Taurus drive you crazy sometimes?!? Thanks for your input?

Answer 1

Taurus people are resistant to change, they like things "just the way they are, thanks." They can be very stubborn: often appearing very close-minded, and quite defensive about their ideas and beliefs even in the face of strong contradictory evidence that something they believe in might indeed actually be flawed. This can be very frustrating to someone who's trying to have a logical debate with them. It's not that they lack intelligence, they are just slower to process anything that means they might have to adjust their outlook on something as a result. They have an abundance of pride, and at times their egos feel "threatened" when someone questions or "challenges" their viewpoint on something. This causes them to be quite defensive, at times even to the point of being hostile. What is new or different is not something that is readily welcomed. It's been my experience that if you leave a Taurus alone to think quietly (and at his/her own pace), eventually they come around to new conclusions- and may even be willing (if you don't pressure them) to admit it to you, usually with some kind of peaceful gesture. Taurus people are actually quite loving and also care very much about what others think of them. They don't really like fighting with those they love (although sometimes it actually seems like they do!)... They actually want peace. They don't want to be perceived in a negative light. They just don't want you to tell them what they should think: and that's what they think you are doing when you try giving them an alternative perspective to consider. They'll do anything but admit you might have a legitimate point: even if they believe you actually do! LOL! On the other hand, Virgos also are known to be stubborn. The combination of Virgo and Taurus (in a relationship) usually goes quite well in many respects, for both seem to have practical outlooks on life...however, when it comes to the willingness to concede to understanding and accepting someone else's viewpoint, (especially out loud and to each other-) this can be a serious point of contention.

I hope this answers your question!

Answer 2

I don't think this is a good relationship for you. You have been complaining about this guy for a while now, I think you need to move on to someone you can be yourself with and be happy because it seems to me you are not happy in this relationship. Don't settle for anything or anyone you deserve to have the best!