know that there was something you wanted to say or do for someone you loved and can no longer do it because they have passed away? my mother used to drink coffe every day ,all day long . she would add ice to it and it would just make me wonder why she would do this ,if coffee was "meant" to be hot when drinking.of course this was before iced coffee was introduced at mc d's,baskin robbins and so on. well i would have loved to taken her out for one of these,as she used to make her own by just adding the ice.anyone else out there feel the same about someone they never had a chance to say or do something for.? sorry this is such a long question,but helps to know if there are others out there the same as i.
2007-09-07 21:06:37 · 2 answers · asked by fishin for answer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes. I think alot of us had this happen.
Regrets we have, to say we are sorry. To tell them that they were loved so very much.
But who says you can't talk to them?
I think it is very healing to say what you need to say to the person. You can even just *think about it* and not talk, whatever way is comfortable for you.
It is a great relief just to do it.
I hope this helps you. Do it for yourself, then let it go...It is done.
As far as happy times, I keep those memories close to my heart, and tell my children the stories, so the memory is never lost.
I hope this helped you. It did for me.
2007-09-07 21:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by laughinglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time I think of my father
2007-09-08 04:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋