when the person or people that told you that they would always be there for you abandon you when you needed them most?
2007-09-07 20:26:09 · 38 answers · asked by NoLongerHere 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It's 1 of the worst feelings in the world.
Someone said that they were there for you
Just said that so you would listen to your problems?
F**k Them!
Their not true friends!
2007-09-07 20:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
gutted - heartbroken - my advise to you find some time to be alone - nurture yourself - eat sensibly - make sure you R loking after your diet - don't punish yourself by not eating - that will only add more stress to the stuation - hey i wish i could be there - i would prepare some thin slices of smoked salmon which i would tear over some perfectly lightly cooked scrambled duck eggs - with some soya butter very lighly thinly spread on sliced light rye bread - or perhaps some barley and sunflower bread - thin slices with crusts taken off - maybe toasted so the soya butter melts just a miniscule amount of soya creme or a drissile of olive oil maybe my preference wld B grapeseed oil - both have anti-oxidant values - then I would make you a banana and strawberry smoothie - later we cld have some coffee when U think U have eaten enough - U could cuddle up and be comfortable - I wld ask U if it wld B ok to put an arm around U - then listen to your ever word - and give U support - mostly listen to U - and say ok - don't be such a worry wort - everything is going to B alright - and i would not leave your side - until you were feeling much better - blow yr nose now - make sure you have some pocket tissues with U - ok lol ? if U need to talk - Email me - i could keep U company - ok - U R not abandoned U have an angel looking after U - beleive it - it is true - move on - get a life - don't B a whimp ! - think 4 a moment - could turn this - whole experience around - this is not U this is someone else - right ? though to abandon and also to B abandoned - is huge - i understand - feeling better now ? please don't B tearful - anyway - i sense U will B fine .
2007-09-07 23:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sebastian Flight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I haven't experienced that yet. I thought at some points I was being abandoned by people who I needed, but really they were doing me a favor.
2007-09-07 20:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Feli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it;s a setback, it's like "the stock market just crashed for you."
Your time consider it an investment, was just shattered.
Well, they say this is the stuff that makes you stronger!
All I can say, is there is someone who is worthy of your time out there right now, waiting for you and only you.
Be pro-active and don't let this stumble be a major fumble for long. Your a great person and deserve the same.
Believe, it's gonna happen.
BTW, join a small Christian Missionary Church. That will help.
2007-09-07 20:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That they are not true to their word, therefore I will never plan to rely on them for ANYTHING that I know will give them the opportunity to put me through that house of pain feeling again. It's like being lied to...so the trust between us is lost. I've never been abandoned (yet), but I have been let down. The true reaction is based on which one you've experienced. If one is abandoned, I'd imagine the person not trusting ANYONE ever again..vs if you are let down, you will not trust only that particular person or that group of people/family who did that to you.
For me, I know I've let down the ones I truly love but not intentionally so I wouldn't want them to feel like I lied to them (like when I was going through my divorce, it was hard for me to comfort their pain cuz I was going through mine). My true friends would know that's not who I am, but I'd still feel crappy for not being there, so I would make sure to explain what happened, especially if I knew they were counting on me. The sad thing in life though, is that some people never realize how much someone does depend on them to be there...Bottom line is I'd feel that they are selfish to abandon you/us (at least without explanation), therefore would not allow myself to be around that person/people anymore, but pray for them to start being true to themselves and others. If they truly love you, they would not leave you.
2007-09-08 14:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by LoveSlave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Terrible, because it sucks. That is why you must have a strong spiritual center to sustain the blows. People are not perfect and they do hurtful things, sometimes on purpose and sometimes not. Forgive and release them. You still have you. :)
I asked the question a while back, If I give my heart what do I have left? You answered: My Soul.
It was the perfect answer. ~Best.
2007-09-07 20:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♠♥ Miss Zora ♦♣ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel betrayed and resentful. if someone says they will always be there, they better be there no matter what. but if they do abandon you, i say you found how good of a friend they really are and find someone else who says what they mean. no one deserves to have someone do that to them
2007-09-07 22:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by kristen♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Betrayed
2007-09-07 20:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Aimee B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At the time I felt that they never truly cared, and it made me very cynical and sad. But now, I feel that maybe they just didn't know what to do or how to deal, so they turned their backs. Not the nicest thing to do, but I can understand that.
2007-09-08 11:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bunny Boiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That feels realy bad. But it also makes you stronger and kicks all the worthless people out of your life for good.
2007-09-07 20:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by OC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋