Umm ok I got this friend on myspace he is very cool or whatever but the last 4 weeks i have been writtin him over and over leaving comments askin him is he ok leaving messages is he ok or whats wrong and he failed to write me back 1 time now to me I feel like he igging me cause its other folks on his myspace leavin him comments and i could go to there page and see he wrote dem back and they not even on his tops like i am (by the way i am #5 on his) (he's # 4 on mines) so i feel like now i did all i can do and i'm ready to just delete him cause its gettin really childish how he acting towards me for what reason i have no idea i only been nice to him also i made him a custom made layout he put layout on his page 30mins then switch it to another one i thought that was disrespectful cause it took me over 1 hour to make it so what yall think i should do delete him or no.
2007-09-07 19:33:05 · 6 answers · asked by Rone 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet ➔ MySpace
let me also say i don't care what # i am on his tops the point i'm tryin to make is he disrespectin me by writtin everybody but me i have call him wrote him on yahoo messager shoot i even sent him this question askin him do u want me just delete u cause i have no time for crazy childness i mean yall people need read first and talk after well type.
2007-09-07 20:30:59 · update #1
dont delete him. i mean, he might be going through a crisis or something and cant talk about or something... friendships take time, effort, care, and patience, so just wait it out. =)
2007-09-07 19:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
My own cousin was ignoring me for months on end; same situation, except it was with family. I would message her not incessantly, but a lil bit from time to time. She would always read the messages, and then not even reply.
Even when she'd post a bulletin about "getting a job" or something like that, I'd ask a question via msg. saying "great, what kind of job, etc etc.". She opens the message and doesn't reply. Finally, after three months, I just sent her one final, furious cuss-word laced message [which she didn't reply to] and deleted her from my friends. I doubt I will ever speak to her again in this lifetime.
Apparently, when people stop responding OVER and over, the chances of coincidence start to fade away, and it becomes clear that they don't give a f*** about you. What do I say for this position you're in? Same exact thing. Delete him.
Trust me, he's making you look like a groupie by disrespecting you like that. You may feel a little regret about it at first, but that is definitely the best way; sever the contact. You get over it quicker than you think.
2007-09-07 19:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Betwixt & Between 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think your being childish........who cares if your #4 or #32 on his page. get over it. if you wanted something in return for making him a layout you shouldve asked, not expected.
yeah, just let it go for now. hes got something goin on. sometimes i dont write back to certain friends for a while, doesnt mean i dont like them.
damn, people severing relationships over unanswered myspace messages. it is a sick sad world indeed.
2007-09-07 20:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends do you ever see him, or if he a friend you met on-line? I'm asking cause it depends how well you know the person. has he done anything like this before? and think about what lengths you are willing to go to be friends with him.
P.S. it really don't matter what number you are on his friends list. My space isn't binding lol. that's childish.
2007-09-07 20:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Galinka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just stop leaving him comments for a while and see what happens.
2007-09-07 19:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont delete him u neva kno wots hes goin thru.. :(
2007-09-07 19:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by BluntlyHONEST. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋