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i have only been with him for like 3 months,,, should i give him another chance. i have heard rumours that he slept with another girl.. i asked him about it & he swear to me that he didnt... every time we talk & i get mad he will start to cry.. what should i do give him another chance... plz help.......

2007-09-07 18:33:45 · 25 answers · asked by kermit 13 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

25 answers

Let me get this straight:
You were with him for 3 months.
He's your ex--so you broke up with him? Why?
You heard rumors that he slept with someone else, but he denies it.
You want to know if you should get back together with him?

Well, why did you break up with him in the first place? Is that reason still valid?

Or did you break up with him because of rumors that he denies? You believe the rumors but not him? You don't trust him. Why would you give him another chance?

Poor guy.

2007-09-07 18:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by treebird 6 · 1 0

No dont give him another chance. You know what they say, once a cheater always a cheater. Its a true saying thought up by people like you. If you have only been with him for 3 months and he has already cheated on you, theres nothing there. Let him go, there are plenty of other guys out there who will treat you good and not cheat on you. You totally deserve better! Let this loser go and dont take him back!

2007-09-07 18:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

i just got out of a relationship just like that the only different is that i had a kid with him. i heard rumours that he was doing the same things and when i asked him he promised me that he wasn't doing anything that he only had feelings for me. i should of left the first time i felt that something was wrong, because the next step is thaat he will start to hit you and make you feel like you are nothing.if i were you i wouldn't give him another chance, but i am not you. so go with your gut feeling and please remember that you are someone special and don't deserve to ever be treated like that .

2007-09-07 18:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

i understand if you caught him cheating, or if you had a reliable source, but rumours spread lik wild fire. and its like playing telephone in the 2nd grade. everytime someone passes the story along, it changes a little bit. do you believe him? does he seem genuine? if your heart tells you u still need/want him, then give it another go, but ONLY if you feel comfortable with it. which means you would hav to be able to trust him and not hire like a private detective to follow him everywhere or something rediculious like that.

do what feels right. your gut feeling is almost always right. and girls hav an extra strong one (cuz its not only their gut they think with its their hearts too). if you feel he cheated, he probably did. if not then you have to take the next step. good luck to you and him (if it ends up that way) email me if you hav a question=]
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2007-09-07 18:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ah...No, but only because you are insecure about it. Learn to trust your boyfriend, Its good for the relationship. Also- really, what is more believe-able- some bull rumour, or the man himself?

And what the heck- did he cheat or not? You go back and forth- rumour or truth?!

2007-09-07 18:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by paintedrainbows 2 · 0 0

That's a short time to be dating someone. From personal experience, go with your gut feeling. If you feel that there's something amiss there may just be. If you aren't comfortable, there is better out there.

Another thing, if there are several people talking about him and someone else, you can't discredit everyone. I'd just keep a very open eye and watch for other signs.

2007-09-15 18:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it's all about what you feel,do you think you can truly trust him?,because if you don't you might want to think about having another relationship with this guy.take it slow until you feel that you have enough confidence in him to have a second try at this.remenber some rumors can be based in truth so be careful.

2007-09-07 18:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0 0

only three months.....and you are crying and do not trust him.
I do not blame you.
Find another young man that will treat you like you deserve.
No, do not give him another chance. Listen to your mind, not your heart.

2007-09-15 16:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by Eve 7 · 0 0

Give him another chance..f u still love him and he really prove to you that hes still love you.
one thing, f ur going back together but you cant build the trust anymore becos of rumors, better to stop it.

2007-09-08 00:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by skies 2 · 0 0

Definitely no, man like him is not to be trusted at all, you are still lucky you have all the courage to dump him. You deserve better than him, just wait someone who will love you truly.

2007-09-07 18:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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