Sometimes i feel like an outcast like no one likes me and no one really wants me... I feel like no guy in the world would ever date me and i always feel fat and ugly.
What should i do to try and bring up my self-esteem?
2007-09-07 18:13:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
These are the exact signals you are sending out to others when they are around you..
stop yourself for a moment and remove all negative energy from your life...think only happy thoughts and your life will begin to transition into what you want it to be...only you have control and are the captain of your vessel..When you wake up, say to yourself each and everyday, "I am Special", "I am unique" , I am a creature of God made in his image", "I love myself", "I accept myself", "I am at peace with myself and others", "I have so much to offer"...do not rely on others to make you feel special...Do not allow yourself or others to make you feel less than what you deserve to be...remember people always have an opinion and are experts on everything...only you have control of your life, your destiny...make it a special one, starting today....Best of luck, I wish you much joy!
2007-09-07 18:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lulu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
McKenna,
Perk up. Listen if we all looked like mannequins it would be a boooooring world. Assembly line looks which are manipulated and fake are just that fake.
Its the true you that is nice and unique that every one will like and love.
Join some activities, volunteer, get out and about and you will feel better in no time.
If you feel that you need to become fit, get into some good habits, that means no eating except during meal time. Eat slow and in smaller portions and in smaller bowls, and plates and with smaller spoon. Drink water and no soda. Chew the food extra well and enjoy the taste and texture, you will feel full without over eating.
Exercise even moderate amounts spaced out during the day will kick your metab into high gear and before long you will strutting down the road in the heart walk and other 5K events with a group of friends all around.
Also talk to clergy and ask for their help in getting involved.
Bestoluck and keep the faith.
2007-09-08 01:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by democracyisit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a full body photo. Are you really fat and ugly?
If you are, find a skinny guy with no confidence. If you aren't really all that fat and ugly, join a social service volunteer organization and start having real conversations with people.
Help out in an old folks home and talk with them. They can be a wealth of good tips on how to get what you want because most of them have had lots of problems and survived them well enough to get really old.
When you talk with people, care about their side of the conversation. That will get you liked and loved and raise your confidence.
Confidence is the number one aphrodisiac for both men and women.
2007-09-08 01:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what i do I go to rapid transformations they have free hypnotic cds
and they do work I play them before I go to sleep they are helpful also when it's not at night I go and have my hair shampooed and styled I watch mussic vidios and makemy self up you know and act like I am a semifinalist on a beauty pagent and I go buy flowers for me!!! And I just feel happy that I can go online and answer these questions cause I feel bummed out too about my self esteme but it helps that I am not alone
2007-09-08 01:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by laura w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt like an outcast all my life...I was little when I was younger...Now I am fat...Im not ugly by no means...I have never felt ugly...mine is different my family has made me feel like an outcast....We are okay you know....we are beautifull and we do have alot in common...you are loved and so am I....Jesus loves us where no one else does...Goodluck and May God bless you...
2007-09-08 01:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by hotmommadru 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you never know what a guy might find appealing. Sometimes the things women can't stand about themselves are the very things that a guy may find appealing.
2007-09-08 01:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy your individuality, it's what makes you different that will make you special later, outcasts are kinda cool
2007-09-08 01:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by jimmyredsoxfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋