If I travel with her it would mean the world to her if I went and worked along side her traveling to different cities.
2007-09-07 16:20:18 · 4 answers · asked by harlingenguy_2000 1 in Travel ➔ United States ➔ Other - United States
Well I really need more information but, here is a story for you. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years; we met at work and started dating. We took a month long road trip within the first year we were dating, and well I knew then that if we could be in a CAR together for a month well then we could pretty much do anything! We now take a month long road trip each year, along with several other trips. We live together and although we do not work together we did for several years. I would say if you are going to be working and traveling at the same time that might be tough. However if you are just traveling WHY NOT???
Before you go I would ask myself these questions. Are you going to places that you are interested in? If not you might want to think twice, you might not like every place, and she may not like any place but, you all need to at least like something! Is this someone you want to get to know better, do you see yourself being with them for a while? Is it worth your time, and commitment? How will expenses be handled? What will you do if there is a fight, do the two of you understand that you must at least finish the trip together?
I know they are basic questions but, they really helped me decide. We also had a really long talk before we went, setting some “ground” rules. You know rules for disagreements, going out, request, driving ect.. Again sounds dumb but, you really need to hash some things out before you take a long trip together!
The only other advice that I can give you is that you never really know someone until you travel with them! I have traveled with friends and boyfriends and well until you are with someone 24/7 you just really don’t know them. Understand when you are with people for that long you will see the good, bad, ugly and well unpredictable! Understand that traveling together for a long period of time is not all fun and games, and well working with each other while traveling adds to the stress. However if you all are open, love each other, and willing to accept everything that an adventure will bring well then you are ready! I hope this helps you, I have never regretted my decision to travel with my boyfriend
2007-09-07 17:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by surfjax32 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your question is not very detailed and i don't know what sort of travel you mean, or how long you've been together or anything like that. if it would 'mean the world to her' then it seems like the obvious answer is 'yes', if you have the time and the means, and you care about her enuf. if not, maybe you need to break it off, or re-evaluate your relationship.
obviously if there is some pressing reason you can't travel right now, then she needs to deal with that.
2007-09-07 16:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents did that. and when they found out tht they could live with each other 24/7, the decided they could handle marrage. but if it doesn't work out.... u no.. it could get meesy
good luck
2007-09-07 16:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ivy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess it kinda depends if you can stand to be with her 24/7 try it i guess
2007-09-07 16:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Stealth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋