whats considered losing your virginity between lesbians?

Answer 1

When it goes beyond foreplay and is just all out sex, doing everything that two women can do together.

Answer 2

There is no losing your virginity with lesbians...you can only lose your virginity to a penis, and a man can only lose his virginity when it enters a vagina. At least, technically. Have you heard the expression "technical virgin"? It's someone who's engaged in many sexual activities except not vaginal intercourse. Therefore, if a person is a lesbian their whole life, they are forever, technically, a virgin.

But here's the thing. Does it really matter? I mean, is the fact that you've never had a penis in your vagina something that's going to matter to other lesbians? I doubt it...since after all, they're lesbians.

So...if we conclude that lesbians who are lesbians their whole life never actually lose their virginity, then the real question would be when does one go from being inexperienced to experienced (from the point of view of other lesbians which are the viewpoints that matter in your case)...and I'd say that would be when you have performed oral sex on another woman and have had another woman perform it on you.

And as to whether or not it's just foreplay...you can't compare lesbian sex to regular sex. That's like apples and oranges. In ordinary heterosexual sex, oral sex is something that proceeds intercourse...and without the intercourse both parties aren't totally fulfilled sexually. However, if you as a lesbian find yourself totally fulfilled after having engaged in oral sex with your partner, then why would you consider it merely foreplay? If oral sex leaves you satisfied and fulfilled and you have no intentions of doing anything more (except cuddling...heehee) then don't consider it foreplay...because it's not coming be"fore" any other major sexual acts.

In short, don't worry about whether or not what you're doing ever actually fulfills the scientific requirements to lose your virginity. If you're happy, that's all that matters.

Answer 3

I asked a question like this a while ago. People will say that the only way to lose your virginity is to have intercourse-but what about lesbian sex? Is the entire sex act just considered.. foreplay? Is that it? It's confusing.

Answer 4

when the sex act goes from just playing around to full on sex or love making, as the case may be, and you have your first orgasm with another person, biological changes happen in your body. hormones are aroused in a way that they were not before, endorphins attack your brain (in a good way)...everything changes. THAT is the moment you lose your virginity. the gender of your partner is not a factor.

Answer 5

Fingerbanging?!

Not being a lesbian myself, I'm only guessing. I have always thought that losing one's virginity was all about PENETRATION! Of course, two women lack the proper "equipment" to penetrate as nature intended. I can't even imagine HOW they can even get off with such limitations, but.... whatever!

Answer 6

I would consider any type of entry into your vagina, would be considered losing your virginity. And if it's not already torn, tearing your hymen i would say counts. Though sometimes this can tear without due to stressful acts on or with your body.

Answer 7

You are of course serious.
It means the first time you made love with a women.
Don

Answer 8

prettmy much the same for all 3 orientations is the way i c it no diff

Answer 9

when she touches you inside your private area and then she removes your clothes and gives you a special bath!

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Answer 10

Oral sex or fingering.