I'm a girl and I have a friend who could be gay. I support homosexuals 100% though, since I am bi myself, I see no problem with this at all. It's really difficult to tell and he never answers when asked. I met him recently and he's really nice, though he jokes A LOT about other guys being gay, like once today this other guy said this picture of a foot looked like this other guy's foot, and my friend says he didn't know that because he "isn't as intimate with him as you are." He also on occassion poked straight jokes too, like "all the guys are trying to impress the new girl", or "you were checking your cousin out?? Jk!" to a girl.
He mentioned having to wear high heels once for a play, and a guy calls him queer, my friend's reply is a 'no.' Sometimes when he is called gay he also says stuff like, 'you wish.' He said (when someone was talking about it once) he saw a show featuring all fully naked male singers but it was really boring, he hated it, and made the "yuck" expression too.
2007-09-07 14:47:36 · 4 answers · asked by Chained 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
^continued from above...
He also said the show was part of a package deal and he didn't actually intend to watch it. But that could have been a cover-up too, in fact all of them could. He has mentioned though, that when he was in his early 30's he thought of having children and that it was a really big thing for him to think about, but he decided not too.
2007-09-07 14:49:58 · update #1
Obviously I want to know because I am interested in him.
Oh and strangely when he joined the "People supporting gay blood donors" on facebook group he hid the status saying he joined it, but didn't hide the other groups status that he joined.
2007-09-07 15:00:16 · update #2
If he wants you or anyone else to know his sexuality, he will tell you. If he doesn't it is none of your business and you have no right to speculate. If he tells you he isn't gay, he isn't, accept it. He knows himself far better than you do. If he really is a friend, you will stop being bitchy about his supposed sexuality and accept him for who he is.
2007-09-07 14:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by tentofield 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it even matter to you whether he is or isn't. If he's just a recent friend give the friendship some time to grow--if he wants to tell you one way or another he will. I've never understood what the big obsession is with getting a gay person to "come out" to you anyway! Sorry if that sounds a bit scolding, but I've had a number of friends who were the same way with me and it was downright annoying!
2007-09-07 14:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by starkneckid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard sometimes. I guess I would say that if you are interested, just ask him out, see what he says.
2007-09-10 07:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't really say if he is or not... sounds to me like he could go either way
2007-09-07 14:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋