My parents just got in a horrible fight...they we're actually trying to beat each other up...I screamed out 'SHUT THE F*CK UP!' as loud as I can, and I threatened to call the police....I slammed the door and started crying...I'm only 13, and i've never dealt with anything as horrible as this...what do I do?!
2007-09-07 14:22:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
All I can say is I'm so sorry for you- it's terrible to hear your parents arguing, especially if they get violent. Could you go stay with a friend or relative for the weekend to let it all cool down? Then maybe you can talk to your mom and tell her how upset the fighting makes you and if they absolutely need to fight, could they please do it a little more quietly and in their room. Man, it just sucks that parents do this stuff to their kids. I'm a 53 yr old grandma and in my house I don't even like people to raise their voices- 2 daughters and 2 grandkids live with me. It's just not healthy for kids to hear yelling and fighting from the adults they love and trust to take care of them. Good luck, sweetie.
2007-09-07 14:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by nanny411 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
I take it that they stopped fighting. But if they didn't, then yes you should call the police. If they did, then you should hook up with your mom in the morning and talk with her. Try to get her to see a councilor and maybe by this BOTH of your parents will get into this. They should NEVER raise their hands to each other. But you did the right thing by shouting out at them. I wish you the very best, as NO girl or boy should be subject to going through this.
2007-09-07 21:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry, no child should ever have to live with that!! My parents fought a lot when I was growing up, luckily there was no physical violence but it is not easy to the fighting. Is there anyplace you can go, a friends or relatives, any kind of safe haven when they are fighting?? Is this some thing that only happens occasionally or is it pretty regular?? If you need to talk with someone, to vent or whatever, please email me, I'll help you anyway I possibly can.
2007-09-07 21:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ginny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you have to deal with this. My parents fought all the time when I was your age and it sucked. The only thing you can do is stay out of it, with the exception if there's physical abuse going on. In that case, you need to call the cops. Hang in there. It will eventually blow over. Adults can act like idiots some times.
2007-09-07 21:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man Jamie, Harsh, Ill Pray for You and Hope things get better, you Should Call The Police if domestic Violence happens, dont try to stop them, stay with a friend or a relative until they solve things,if things get bad and they fight lock Ur self in room away from harm.I Hope things get better, My friends parents do that a lot to, i was there to witness it im still scarred from their brutality, my friend even tried to commit suicide cuz it was that painful to him, me and my other friend stopped him, i know what Your going thru, hang in there.
2007-09-07 23:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by A1C Lopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. I have been in that situation. If violence is involved you should call the police. It is a good way to get a point across to them that you are not willing to put up with it. My heart breaks for you. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-09-08 01:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Severus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh I'm so sorry! Wow you're really brave...most people would run or hide =/. You shouldn't have to deal with their problems...try to stay at a friends for the weekend, and if that doesn't work stay out of your house as much as possible. I don't think there's much you can do =/
2007-09-07 21:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by RAWRR annamonster! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG this kind of thing has happened to me, but getting in got me more hurt. I'm 13 too. Call a close relative and ask them what to do also just let it be and try to let it blow over, maybe you may wanna pack a backpackin case it gets out of hand. keep a phone with you. may hope be with you :]
2007-09-07 22:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that, if they are really trying to beat each other up, call the police.
Sleep in a friend's house today.
2007-09-07 21:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to call the police...right now before someone gets hurt...including you...please i know this is hard to do...i had to do it when i was 12 but am glad to say both of my parents lived through the night as well as my sisters brother and myself...you don't know how bad it will be and you cannot handle this without help...please call!
2007-09-07 22:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋