how do i get a gay partner when im 14 (im a boy)?

Answer 1

I would wait if I were you. Enjoy your youth now, there will be plenty of time for that later.

Answer 2

Uh... I really don't know but I guess you just have to fall in love like you would with a woman. I'm NOT being mean or anything and if you wanted to try a date website. Wait, those things are nasty, never mind. Just try and find a guy the way you would a woman. Talk, chat, flirt, invite over. BUT FIRST, make sure your partner is GAY! If he has a gf and thinks you just want to be friends, and you make the 1st move. Yee-owch!
Good luck
P.S. Love has a way of working out.

Answer 3

I think you are a bit young for a partner, but if you want to connect with other gay teens in your area, look up gay and lesbian youth groups. Oftentimes, schools will even host them. Good luck.

P.S.- Try the web site below to start.

Answer 4

Well, guys your age are usually ALL confused about their sexual orientation. So, you may not be gay, but confused.

Trying to find a partner your age will be hard, since other guys are struggling to find out what it is exactly that they like.

So, if you really strongly believe you are gay and would like a partner, he may be slightly older. Guys younger don't really come out and admit they are gay even if they are.

I hope this helps. And good luck

Answer 5

Explore carefully. There are lots of guys out there who will tell you anything just to get into your pants, so watch out for them, especially older guys. Check around for a while to see what you really want, take your time, you don't want to seem desperate. Don't tell anybody you will be theirs forever just to get them in bed. Be a friend to people, hang out, try to get a mental feel about people to see if they might be interested. Above all, don't get obsessed - there's more to life. Have some interests, like theater or music.

Answer 6

Right now it is just not going to happen - you need a childhood and a good preliminary education! Seriously, there will be plenty of time for everything else later, AND believe me when I tell you - you will be glad you got what you needed done first! Concentrate on friends and family now!!

Answer 7

***************** Wow!! Hater Alert ***************

Ignore the PRATS who are telling you to read a bible and stuff (the bible was wrote by a man not god or jesus).

Anyways, erm your school, may sound ridiculous but I am 13 an dknow like 6 gay ppl at my skewl - all sme age!!. Its 13% of the population, thats 1 in every 34 people. So just like gently flirt but dnt go over board because if there not gay it could go aye-wire and just be there fore the person ur attracted too and be friendly :).

Dan.

Answer 8

the element that stands proud for me is the oral intercourse on your dude pal. needless to say meaning your the two gay or bi. And 14 is waaay too youthful (gay or quickly) to take part in some thing like that

Answer 9

I understand having to see your friends with their bf/gf's and how much it pains you that you can't share that same thing at the same age. I've been there and done that. Truth is, people your age normally arn't out of the closet and will never go into a relationship with the same sex. If you find one that is out of the closet at school, go for it. Other than that, wait until you are a little older. With each passing year, more and more people come out of the closet.

Answer 10

I would wait, at least a couple years. I have. I have also seen my friends get caught up in a relationship and lost them. Enjoy your teenage years, un-attached.

Answer 11

ok, wild here, normal response -
Why don't you wait until you are older and can figure that out on your own...You are a child. Right now you are just setting yourself up to be a pedophiles dream - namely NAMBLA. Really...hold on..wait at least 4 years...wow...trauma.